Dude Advice

Yeah I was actually relieved. I had argued with them from the beginning that I'd rather be rejected and move on then wonder for the rest of my life. I'm the "prude and naive" one of the group. "Love is overrated" according to most. But I don't have to worry about them. I'm not close to any of them anymore. You're right about others judgments being influenced by who I'm surrounded by which is why I'm doing the online dating thing. That and I live in a small town where everyone's practically slept together >_< ...so here I am heh. Trying to give it a go before I truly commit to being the Forever Alone Crazy Cat Lady xD

I figured online dating will help get me into the swing of things at a better pace for me instead of throwing myself to the sharks from the get go lol. Yes, it's stories like yours that definitely gives me hope :) Congratulations again~

I'll give you stories that put things into focus, too. My wife once met with a guy from online, got drugged, clothes were missing as she ran out semi-incoherent, but luckily nothing was done. I know for her, that was quite traumatic, seeing as things could've ended up much worse. My point is, just be smart and listen to your gut. Also, if you do meet up with someone, tell a friend or family member where you're going and make sure it's well lit in public. You'd think these things should be common sense, but emotions and excitement can cloud judgement all to quickly. Best of luck.:)

Yandere that's a relief :) Honestly as long as the chemistry is there I wouldn't care. I'm a pretty open minded person. Yaasshat HOLY SHIT BALLS D: That is fuckin crazy. I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope she has or is healing from that experience. Definitely gonna be taking my handy dandy stun gun with me on meets. Thank you so much for all the advice as well! ^_^

im one of those girlish boys. i relish the idea of being dolled up :3 its a wonderful thought.

I'm glad you find something wonderful Grumpy Gills :) It's nice to see a different side of you ^_^ John I dig the advice. Poetry is pretty raw and powerful stuff. I recently started getting into it. Adventures are great, however this woman doesn't want a savior to sweep her off her feet. It would be nice but I'm not a damsel in distress type of woman. Blame it on the tomboy in me xD