Dude Advice

Meh... I treat guys the exact same way I treat girls. Just that I'm less touchy and make less inappropriate jokes as that gets often misinterpreted as flirting. I think just being yourself is the safest way to find someone who actually suits you..

It´s a matter of experience in the end but the most important fact is to be yourself. To me I find it weird when a girl is all touchy and stuff on the first date. I mean girl it´s our first date I don´t want to make out with you directly :D Some people tend to date more the same person to get close some less. For the first meetup be yourself and make sure that you know what you want. If you goin for the relationship and that´s your goal make sure to express yourself in that way and don´t go for a hookup instead or just some flirty stuff or free food or whatever. Dating and relationships are really complicated in the end because there are only two real options how it is gonna end either you end up with him for your entire life or you break up because of some lackluster stuff. No pressure though

I'm always myself but get friendzoned, lumped in as one of the guys. (Kind of a major tomboy) So what do I do about that?

Avoid being yourself? Wow, mah dude. I'd rather be single than follow that advise. Changing your essence for the validation of others sets you up not only for a lifetime of resentment towards others but towards yourself.

Don´t change who you are. In the long run it just ends poorly. If you look for a simple stupid hookup that has a high chance to work but not if you looking for something real. You can´t bite your tongue forever in the end. Just try to look out for guys who like you for who you are. Not for your style, your fashion, your money or your looks and try to be confident about yourself and your body no matter your looks.

I have remained mad single for over a year just because I got tired of hiding my faults from people/changing my personality and interests from people so they would like me more. Now whoever gets stuck with me just has to accept all the weird kinks, checkered past, and love of romance anime.

Lol. The way things are now it's easy to look for a hookup. I'm not that kind of girl though. Unfortunately the guys that like me for me aren't interested in me that way or are taken. And I'm no home wrecker. In fact I'm the friend that cock blocks them at the bar and reminds them that they have a significant other at home whom they very much love.

There are too many hoes and fuckboys out there who only look for hookups etc. In the end it´s not worth your time especially if you have someone close to you who is interested in something more serious. Hookups usually function as an option for release or to express some sort of personality issue. It usually ends up in building up trust etc. Dating and getting to know each other is the most important fact to make something work. In the end there is no real advice to share. It´s up on your own as harsh it may sound. Good luck