What is "nice and caring?

Btw genuine is to some people sometimes mean/obsessive/aggressive etc. for people because genuine love/bonds aren't common so people are used to faux/bogus/insincere relationships :~* ;* +=++*=•••

I hear nice and caring a lot. But to be honest, most people who label themselves as nice and caring, aren't honest people. I'd rather be honest and personable, than nice and caring. I'll tell ya what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

In my book... a nice person is someone capable of delineating satisfaction from non harmful interactions with other people. It is very subjective as what constitutes a harmful interaction, because it is not agreed upon by everyone. This means when I call my best friend a piece of dog shit and he should drop dead, he can laugh it off and call me something equally derogatory, the whole time we still perceive each other as being "nice". While people that don't know about us may think our behavior is ridiculous and we hate each other. Caring translates to interacting with something or someone with the intention or desire to not damage, cause harm, or to reduce suffering. It can also mean to benefit or help a person in the context of person to person interactions.

Everybody wants to gain something in interaction be that consciously or subconsciously. However difference in opinion or ideals can be beneficial. I would hope that people dont translate nice/caring into somebody enforcing and agreeing with everything about them. You can afterall be nice and caring without agreeing to somebody else. Anybody can claim being genuine based on what they think it is. Such as not sugar coating anything thinking blunt honesty equates to being genuine. Outside of the dictionary it takes many different definitions.