Flings or Serious Relationships?

Flings for me were personally non emotional and it never got even close to being serious. Thats something i'm done with now and i want something serious

I prefer relationships... Flings can do some serious unintentional damage... It doesn't matter how honest you are about your intentions when you start out. People can quickly develop attachment for any number of reasons. Women especially when they get attached think, "I'm the exception. I'll be the one to change his heart." Then when it doesn't happen, they get hurt. More times than not, people just get their feelings toyed with and their hearts broken when they realize a fling is all it was, and all it will ever be. Yeah, people can get just as hurt just as fast in a relationship. But flings are a huge deception. Even if you say it up front, people will lie to themselves and lie to their hearts thinking they're okay with just a fling, or that they can make it to be more. Personally I'm the type that easily gets attached.

I would want serious, to me I couldn't do flings. I've never had a fling, partly because I get attached and fall so flings only would end up hurting me