In general why black men allowed to date outside of their race but black women are not allowed

Like i said I'm only Speaking in general and i had to ask because when a black man dates white women that's OK but however if black men sees a black woman dating a white man then they get mad and say crazy crap I.E she's a traitor to her race. Or the worse case scenery if black men sees a black woman dating a white man and they get mad either start crap with her white boyfriend,attacks the couple,attacks the black woman if that goes that far or they attack the white boyfriend so bad he either dies or he gets beaten so bad he has to be in hospital. & that in my opinion i call a double standard and i just don't get it to be honest a black man dates white women that's OK but however if black men sees a black woman dating a white man then they get mad and say crazy crap or start trouble with her boyfriend or disrespected him all because of he's white or she might get beaten by a white woman. No no I'm not generalizing like i said I'm only speaking in general & from what I've notice either online,in the news or in public i admit i as a American white guy find some black women transgender or not attractive and to be honest I'm just a little nervous of dating her or asking her out if i liked her because that might happens to me too+I'm a little worried about her,my & both of our safety. & if you wish to say & include side tips of either don't be nervous,how to overcome my nervousness or how to deal with them if that happens me/us too if i am dating her then feel free to that's fine with me only if you want to thanks,thanks for reading,thanks for your time and thanks for sharing your views :).

Kip and lafawnduh. Don't tell me ur more of a bitch than him. When I see Asian chicks dating non Asians I kinda get mad coz I think why not me? If he's better looking than me I'm not at all mad, but if I'm better looking than him then I got kinda ticked (I wouldn't say mad) if other dudes get pissed n start shit they're trying to intimidate u to make u look like a pussy in hopes of her seeing it n leaving u. My suggestion: stay strapped or at least carry a knife. But fr, fuck the haters, just keep doing u. No matter what u do, ur always gonna have haters. Even Jesus had haters

"No no I'm not generalizing like i said I'm only speaking in general" Ok but now seriously, here are the words a random racist guy said:"...Japanese men and black women are considered the least attractive races..." This got me angry because I think almost everything Japanese is awesome. If we were to believe this random racist and his "research", maybe the problem is not racism, just that most people don't find black women particularly attractive. (unlike your example of black men??idk). Racism is such a sensitive topic that I suspect people will call me a racist just because of my tastes in women(I prefer white, anime-like women). Now if we continue the line of thought from the random racist guy's research, and based on my tastes again, I'm not attracted to fat women,from what I've seen fat people get bullied, so I will deduce that people who deviate too much from the established beauty are bullied. Black women deviate from the established beauty, so people will bully you(her boyfriend) for it(for you being with a woman who deviates from the established beauty). Maybe I'm wrong and it's not just a matter of appearance. This is my opinion about what you asked, I understand you must be mad with me because I criticized your taste of women, but I don't think it's wrong to appreciate beauties from a niche market. I like some not widely appreciated types like white, green haired women, absurdly long haired, huge eyes, short girls, etc. I also think that even if most people find an individual very ugly, there will always be someone who will find him pretty, so never give up. I think you should try to be with her, don't give up just because of what other people think! I criticized your grammar but mine is probably really bad since I'm too lazy to review the text.

i've seen some japanese men and they dont look attractive at all .-. but then again im both black and japanese orz what does this say about me? tbh thats a bunch of bs. its the same thing with guys sleeping with a bunch of women, but when a girl sleeps with a bunch of guys she is considered a whore. idk my preferences are white and asian women and i find black women to not be attractive (not that they are ugly or anything). i feel any race should be able to date anyone they want.

"I'm not generalizing like i said I'm only speaking in general" Yeah... Anyway. I have seen an argument at a movie theater once between two black men, that I don't know what started it but it became mostly about one man's white wife. To me it seems that many black men assume that a black woman is dating "outside of race" because the woman believes that black men aren't good enough. There's really a lot to this. On an article about an interracial relationship on a website tailored to black individuals I saw a lot of extreme racial isolationist beliefs. And why do you assume that the black men dating white women are the same ones who have an issue with black women dating white men? That would certainly be hypocritical. You've also seem to have missed how angry a lot of black women are when they see a black man dating a white woman. It goes both ways. It really sounds like you would struggle with being in a relationship with a black person, perhaps due to a lack of experience and fear of being discriminated against. It's pretty much unavoidable. It also goes for being in a relationship with someone who is transgender. Hatred is rampant. Oh and this part [if black men sees a black woman dating a white man and they get mad either start crap...] makes it seem like you're really gullible with what the media feeds people about black people and violence. Unless you frequent inner city neighborhoods in the middle of the night, you're fine.

Here's the deal, even black men who date white women get hate. I once had a coworker who had a white wife and there was another guy who I believe was from Nigeria. We were taking a break, dude with the white wife had his head down as if he was sleeping.The Nigerian guy starts talking with another guy and says "Why couldn't he find a black woman?". Luckily, the other guy who only had his head down, didn't flip his shit. But, my point is, it goes both ways. For many though, it's seen as a conquest if a black man is with a white woman, just like it's seen as a conquest for a white man to be with a black woman. I, however, find it all to be stupid. Who you are with is of no concern of anyone. These are the same kind of people who make an issue out of who you sleep with...It's not their business. I say, fuck it, you like who you like and anyone else can just piss off. Two consenting (Or more, swingers and what not.)adults should not have to worry or care about what another thinks.

it's OK yaasshat and i didn't say you didn't agree I'm only saying that i agree with you on what you're saying I apologize if i didn't put it in the right words