Biggest turn offs

I was curious what the general populus dislikes immediately in a potential relationship. It seems like the more I date the longer the list of automatic Nos becomes. So who else has a couple deal breakers that pretty much closes the case for you? My biggest is children :x I personally never want kids and a baby crazy potential or someone who is already a mom has me running the other way. Also people who talk down about other's hobbies without ever trying them. Don't knock it till you try it is a big philosophy of mine :P

I can see that. I used to feel that way about smoking and I still dislike cigarettes but I do smoke cigars once evey couple of months with my brother. You know from my experience on OKC I totally see that! I was genuinely shocked how many of the guys profiles were like "I want some kids of my own, no adopting" etc like geez here I am doing everything in my power to keep small humans as far away as possible lmao

OKC is not just for hooking up, but any dating site has loads of guys looking to hook up. It's created a side-effect of girls being burnt out dealing with it. I've tried lots of dating sites from goth oriented vampirefreaks.com to mainstream sites like okcupid and plentyoffish and here. I've eventually found girls to date on all these sites but few and far between. My best luck was with old school myspace before facebook got popular. But then myspace changed and went to shit. But yeah, these days lots of people have either given up on mainstream dating sites or they joined the hookup culture on Tinder and such.

That's good because there are a lot of really yummy and nice smelling cigars haha! Yeah and the questions used to be even more ridiculous! They have actually taken a ton of them off of there lol. I only got a few dates out of OKC and all ended up awkward with me realizing in the end I just prefer people with otaku tendencies such as myself lol. Well if it makes you feel any better a couple of my friends actually need birth control for pmdd and such and it actually helps them quite a bit! Here's hoping it helps and agrees with your body! ^_^ @loli_vampire first off all hail Heart-Under-Blade. Second, I do feel bad that girls have to deal with the ridiculous amount of desparate dudes out there. I've seen the cringe-worthy screen shots from some okc and tinder conversations lol. And omg Myspace that certainly takes me back.

I think the hook up culture is worse these days because of a few different factors coming together. 1. The easy access of internet porn is the main source of sex ed for millions of boys (and even girls) and obviously it's the worst example of healthy relationships. 2. The increase in unmarried parents and divorce being more common over the last few decades creates more "broken homes" and child abuse/neglect that kids grow up in with much fewer examples of parents with healthy relationships for kids to learn from and emulate. 3. The huge number of potential dates available online creates a catalog effect where people shop for a predefined "model" instead of taking the time to get to know them. Instead, visual aesthetics become the overriding deciding factor, naturally making people more shallow.

Hmmm well I agree that the "catalog dating" has become pretty prevalent in our society and sort of, cheapens dates and such, but Idk about the whole "unmarried parents" and "broken homes" bit. A high divorce rate doesn't mean a high rate of unhappiness necessarily and in fact many people going through divorces claim that their lives are much happier. While some kids can find it conflicting, I think it is a generalization to say that all unmarried and divorced households are "broken" and create bad dating habits in children. As for porn well, I really hope no one is looking to it for actual sex advice or, god forbid, dating ideals. I generally don't think porn ruins ideals of dating but it definitely mainstreams and normalizes bad sexual behaviors.

the biggest turn off for me would be girls that focus too much on sex...i mean sure i guess sex is nice. but if its all you think about 24/7 and it comes up in literally all of our conversations i cant do it.