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wertingman
This forum is going to be for said people or anyone else. What are your thoughts on world perception on us? How's has your journey been? Please tell us your coming out story(if your comfortable) How does your family feel about it? Do you have alot of support for it? And lastly, what do you think about the "bathroom" debate that they had with the big chairs?
wertingman
1. Perception- Tbh I think most of the world thinks we are disgusting. Most people from what I understand turn us into a fetish or find us disgusting(we dress like a female but aren't one biologically). There are those who accept and cheer us on but are outnumbered by haters. 2. My journey- I identify as male because if what's in between my leg. I identify as 25% male and 75 % women in my head. When I put on women's clothes I feel far less shitty about myself. I have no desire to switch sex right now but things might change in the future. 3. Coming out- I'm Pan-Sexual. I've always had these weird likes for people that normal people would make fun of me for. There was this one girl that I found so attractive back in highschool. She was a special ed student that didn't fit in according to pretty popular people. I was afraid to like her because I knew I'd get harassed for it. I didn't see why people couldn't like her, her personality was phonminal! Like one of my exes(female), everyone thought she wasn't hot but I dated her despite what they thought. How could you judge people just on looks? As far me liking men as well, I've always wanted to date some of my (used to be close) guy friends. Once again. I was afraid because the kind of people I lived around were gay bashers... even if it was subtle like not being your friend anymore. The highschool after Sumner I met this guy named Sebastian. He confessed to me and said that I was one of his first few friends in life. I don't remember as I meet alot of people and forget unfortunately. I told him I was straight at that time but he was still persistent. I tried to give him a chance. We didn't even get to one date because I friendzoned(XD) myself so that he could go flirt with the other guy. A few other terrible hood rats later(they all were from this area(lots of ghetto people)) and here I am. I haven't had a bf yet but tbh I want to get one. I'm not desperate or anything so I can wait. Side note: it's not a trophy or achievement thing. 4.Family and support- my family is a very open minded family. They will accept me no matter what. I haven't told all my family yet but I will when I'm ready. Support, I have no friends that know except for my first ex. When I to tell people I'm probably going to have no friends for a while. 5. Bathroom- I think it should be allowed but pedophiles will take advantage of that. I'm all for the idea but ofc people will turn a good thing into a bad thing. Sorry for the typos
fancycosplayer6
I think their is nothing wrong about transgenders, cross dressers, or traps. People should be who they want to be and half the right to express themselves. ^w^ I'm not a transgender, a cross dresser (however I do crossplay some characters that I love to cosplay), or a trap. However, the person that I love is a transgender and some people that I know in M.O. that are those things are really awesome and fabulous. :D The bathroom topic, however is a picky subject. It's really hard to explain. People that aren't transgenders are really concerned about that and I can see why that is. However, I think that their should be restrooms for transgenders. O.O
gunvoltx
I myself am not transgendered, and nor do I take part in crossdressing. That way of life is simply not for me. However, I fully support the LGBT community. If you're transgendered or a cross-dresser, that's fine. It's your life and you can do want you want with it; as long as you don't hurt people. Everyone should be able to be themselves and be comfortable with the way they live their own lives.
neet_one
I believe which restroom you use depends on what you're packing physically, not mentally.
mrnekotamer
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fancycosplayer6
I think that their should be different restrooms. One for females, one for males, one for trans. males, one for trans females. Then, everyone would be happy. :3
gunvoltx
As for the bathroom problem, I think there should be one for men, one for women, and one for everything in between.
shy_otaku
I admit that these issues are way too big to wrap my head around and I can't even begin to imagine what the trans-gender community goes through, but to offer my simplistic opinions on bathrooms... simply make more bathrooms! Why would anyone be against that? The men have their bathrooms, the women have their bathrooms, give the trans-gendered folk their bathrooms and you don't have to worry about them. They go about their business, we go about ours. People worry about safety but bathrooms have always been a target for muggers and such. And yet you don't hear people say "Sorry its not safe to ride this train anymore we're shutting it down" or to go back on topic, "Sorry its not safe to shit in this toilet anymore we're shutting it down." When a place becomes unsafe, more security is brought in. That's the solution. More security until it becomes the norm. I mean there's already cameras outside of bathrooms to check who enters which door, so hopefully if anything bad happens those people caught on camera will be held accountable. Who pays for all this?... WELL THE TRANS PEOPLE OF COURSE (#LAUGHTRACK) WHY WOULD WE PAY FOR THEIR BATHROOMS?!?! (just kidding!) But yeah I honestly don't know where the money would come from but if there's more bathrooms, there's less accidents! (not that I know anything about that...)
siddyf
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