What's holding you back and how are you fixing it?

My lack of success is wanting to much I guess. I want an extremely hot/fit girl because being fit equals life in my opinion. Being fit means less likely to get heart disease or other bad problems. Yet people still call me selfish for wanting her to be healthy and live longer with me. Life is a bitch sometimes when you don't know what right or wrong is :(

Time is holding me back and priority. How do I fix it I could always shift a little more time in for pursuing people I suspose.

I don't have enough money. Either money to woo the girls that are on the fence between choosing the nice guy who could be their husband or the hot rod with great pecs, abs, and biceps... Or money to go outside of NYC filled with nothing but shallow women... I must move to another city, state and possibly country. Either way I need funds.

The thing that's holding me back is the type of people at my school at my school because almost every girl there is an otaku snubber and I'm fixing it by being here.

My past. As well as socal anxiety on top of not having good socal skills. With my nature being a loner as well as depression and that for some reason when people go around me they become depressed when I'm happy or happy when I'm depressed.

Lack of self confidence and the fact that I dont go out much probably. I use to think I was overweight but i grew into my weight and it fits, so acknowledging that is helping.