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seeking to enrich my dating lifestyle, want a bit of assistance

coneire
Hi folks,I'm writing this post, now that I am experiencing struggles for quite a while to get to know girls, I dunno whether or not it has something connected to me, or if perhaps it's only just bad luck. I've been hanging out close to two or three times per week, usually to night clubs and bars, It is quite hard for me personally, mainly because I am not the sort of fellow who is famous for how sociable or outgoing he is. I felt somewhat uneasy and so distressed, it's quite difficult to me (much more) to communicate in all those types of enviroment with all the girls, even thought, I have done it, I've not experienced a great deal of succes, can you guys give me some guidance?
akira_saito
First of, good on you for going out. I too struggle with communication with people but I dont even have the balls to go to places ahaha. And secondly, be yourself. I find that if you're genuine with people you're more likely to find the right person for you both romantically or just friends. Its hard in the real world where you're going to run into so many people who arnt compatible but you gotta hold onto hope that you'll meet someone. Even just a small conversation helps build confidence! even if all you do is ask for the time you're getting practice in. most importantly be polite. you're gonna catch more flies with honey ya know? Be prepared for girls to be dicks and think you're awkward or weird but rest assured theres always gonna be some gals out there who finds you're awkwardness is kinda cute. Cute is not bad. let cute be your friend. cute can go away once they get to know you. Even if the girl isnt 'the one' making friends with girls can pay off so much because then you can find out some of that inside information like 'hey, why do girls go to the bathroom in packs?' not telling you to ask that but if you ever find out i'd love to know. im a girl and fuck i still dont know. TLDR: Be polite, be yourself, dont let mean girls discourage you, and keep trying. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/c7/1f/5f/c71f5f14d49a5650254f21a16a0076e5.jpg
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