On a scales of 1 to 10 how okay are you with never being in another romantic or sexual relationship again?

I could not possibly do that. 0

probs 0 the sex idc about tbh but if we arent gonna have any kind of romance lol then its just the same as being friends

Wait so 1 is not okay with it and 10 is super okay with it? But on topic, 1 for a sexual relationship seeing as how I've lived this long without one, so living the rest of my days without one looks pretty doable. Probably another 1 for a romantic relationship. I experienced the highs and lows of a long distance relationship so that feels like plenty to me. Now doesn't mean if either of those two were to drop in my lap I'd shrug them off.

I poured a lot into a relationship once, what I can imagine was more than many people put into some marriages. When it was over I could say 10. Gradually though, I wanted to give things a go again. A year later I was in rebound mode, still not yet over the last person. I knew going in my feelings were on lockdown and the rebound encounter only lasted a few months. About a year after that I knew I was going to be okay. I actually was thinking today how long it's been from that break up.. This year will make 4. Even though I've opened myself up some I would still say I'm only about half-way there and from time to time still question my sanity.