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canisbaileyilupus
I've had my heart broken, stepped on, and ripped out of my chest. I'm not really sure why but I know that I'm clingy and sometimes desperate because I've become a lonely teen mother who has a sick special needs child with no social life. I've had at least 8 boyfriends in the past 5 years and none of them have been kind of my sensitive heart. This site is literally my last resort.
ryuseven_0
Please don't think of this site as your last resort. Remember you have your whole life ahead of you. The situation you are in is not an easy one. Not only do you have a heavy responsibly to carry You also have limiting conditions. The fact that you are clingy is not a negative in most cases if you don't act crazy or jealous in an extreme way. That just means you commit to someone. Even though, I do believe your wait will be long. It will take time for those conditions to change. Not only that but lots of hard work. What you will need is a never yielding attitude and determine mind. If you succeed in life I don't see how anything could stop you if you manage to reach all your goals in life. The trails have been laid before you so if you think of it as an opportunity to proof you are that awesome. You will find happiness for your self and your child.
rezikai
Jul 21, 12 at 11:56am
Eh a lot of guys out there are either a-holes are just boys pretending to play grown up. It's hard to find someone decent, hell I'm old and I still haven't found anyone that i can ramble w/anime yet. So yea its depressing, once in a while a hand on the shoulder is all your going to need, when even that isn't around THAT'S when it starts hurting more. I'd say this, your a young girl with plenty of time left, trust us old guys, you'll catch a guy that's halfway intelligent and sensitive eventually, hell if I wasn't so old I'd start hitting on you :P You'll have ups and downs in love and life but its best to be a stable driver.
wiglaf
Jul 21, 12 at 1:44pm
Rezikai is right. Just don't stop being open and trying. Like he said, take it from us old guys ;). If I wasn't so old i'd hit on you too. Sadly this site has very few females over age 23-25 and 90% of those are dead accounts lol. This site won't be your last resort, but the odds are certainly in your favor here. There are TONS of guy otaku's around your age here. It's a good ratio for you. And you have my respect for taking care of your child at your age, i've seen lots of girls just dump their kid with their parents and run off to have fun. Your integrity and sensitivity will be highly prized by the right guy and i'm sure you'll find that guy.
mop
Jul 21, 12 at 2:18pm
While I worship the internet, I don't like to rely on it for things such as love. I think that part of ourselves are lost (and found) through the world wide web, but we should let it BECOME us. I am a semi-firm believer (I say that because I met my last boyfriend through the internet because I am a hypocrite) in meeting people physically. A good point that people have brought up is that this site isn't very active and should by no means be a last resort. I feel like this is a great place for moral support and advice, but I have to agree with the others... This is site is pretty much a dead end and NOT your only option.
anothertsundere
im a bit ani social in real life i enjoy working out in the land and squeezing cows tits then drinking milk :3 and shoveling alot of shit xD and growing flowers from my garden and sucking in the sun im like a big lazy cat on a window resting in the sun i enjoy it being quiet and peaceful too noisy and it will bug me or make me feel out of place which i feel most of the time like at concerts when you see a ton of "wild" girls and your the country southern bell girl <:3 i cant seem to find a guy who is peaceful and has a calm relaxing nature but the ones who just wants to get up and go go go go and go haha <x(
xarioth
Jan 15, 14 at 5:36pm
I've found it more useful to not look for relationships. You seem to get them faster that way. I would not recommend coming on here to try and find a partner, I would say these types of sites are more suited to the friend environments. Though, looking for friendship usually leads to more than just being friends in my experience.
koniginvonpreussen
Don't date on the internet. It's a horrible idea. I've tried it before and the guy literally beat the snot out of me. I agree with everyone else. You have your entire life ahead of you! Sure it's rough right now, but wear it like armor and you will come out stronger than the girls who score with everything that moves. No one likes easy chicks.
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