Do women need to be broken before they understand?

Lol I'm starting to think most guys don't know how women are truly like or that they think not being a stupid bitch is uncommon.

@neko You know.. as far as logical decisions go I never had to handle a psychopatic ex after a break-up with a girl while I had two guys who self-harmed and send me photos of it after the break-up and one even threatened to commit suicide if I don't give him another chance. Don't know how much that fits together with a logical mind. Sure, girls' emotions work differently from guys' emotions. However, I wouldn't say that a) women cannot change it and b) they cannot be as logical as a man in given situations. Just from my personal experience as a female gender has litte to do with how logical a person is or isn't.

@Vampire Neko:No @MariaHaise: This is why i made the disclaimer and it's also why i asked.

I dunno to be honest. I'm not even saying my friend is stupid. Shes actually highly intelligent. Do I think shes making a bad choice? yeah. But I honestly don't really know. Only time will tell. But I do want to say that not every girl, or even guy, cause guys do it too... needs to be "broken" to understand. It all comes down to meeting the right person and just, having the right moment. But thats really for anyone.

@xynox, that's a better counter argument than your initial response which actually supported me because of your reactionary emotional response. Also, it's amusing how everyone loves to take my statements as very black and white as I used terms like "different for everyone" and "tendency". Men have ego management problems. That also stems from the tendency to suppress emotions. Their inability or unwillingness to communicate outwardly and to others what they really feel results in frustration that in extreme situation results in violent emotional outbursts or generally unhealthy and potentially violent behavior. Women are more outwardly expressive of their emotional state of mind as well as monthly hormonal changes tending to have a stronger affect on their emotional stability. (I suspect I'm about to get flamed for that.) I spent half my past relationship just consoling my ex gf from crying fits brought on by depression and her talking about wanting to die. Many others like that too in different ways.

i hate those kind of couples that are mean to people. like my mom and step dad. thats not really what were talking about though. well the girl must be mean if she likes mean guys right?