a girl more manly then the guy

would you be fine with that? it seem today guys are more girly

A girl being more manly than myself? No, I wouldn't. I like feminine girls. And usually it's just pretty boys who act like girls from experience.

How so? Have you lived in another era to compare? What makes a man a "man" and a woman a "woman"? Is there a natural order or just social constructs?

theres like a shit load of guys my age that have a huge truck younger guys have long hair and take the bus and skateboard and crap

Since people are cautious here I am gonna go out on a limb and try to guess what the original poster was saying... Are guys... whether they are as cool as Hiei, muscular as Elfman Strauss, hefty and strong as Sig Curtis, as confident as Sesshomaru, or as well-rounded as Takumi Usui... Or the guys who have NONE of the above qualities, are you fine with a gal who might be more... badass than you? Erza Scarlet Stronger than you? Mikasa Ackerman More verbally vulgar than you? Ryuko Matoi Perverted than you? Ayame Kajou from Shimoneta Forward / more likely to take initiative than you? (Several characters in Sekirei and To Love-Ru) This also may be taking the two of you individually rather than comparing you to each other. Takasu Ryuji likes to clean for example. Taiga Aisaka is a bit of a tomboy. Certain people would say the Palmtop Tiger is more masculine than the Dragon here...

Poster siruboo could also be asking girls to respond, are you okay with such a relationship on your side? This is a fair debate, some gals refuse to date a guy if he is not aggressive, confident, toned or muscular, or simply shorter than them. On the other hand there are plenty of those who would not at all mind being the breadwinner, wearing the pants, being the tough one, etc. They actually more respect a guy who is willing to show his honest emotions or has the skill do do household things like cook and clean, whether these are seen as masculine or not...

theres guys that go through life getting tougher and some that get weaker. ive pretty much always been weak. sometimes ill cry and be shy