Ladies...what are your thoughts on Virgin Males?

Because we say it doesn't matter, Panda? Dude, I'm a virgin myself. Also by choice. It doesn't make me special. People who think of virginity as something holy or important sicken me. Nothing but another way to make you feel better about yourself when you have nothing else to show off. You're not better than the people with whose intimate choices you disagree. In fact, with that attitude, you're worse.

he didn't even make that much compared to the girl who probably could pay her way through Harvard if she wanted to. Still im liking the positive feed back.

I agree on the whole self control is commendable thing. By personal choice, Option A - Virgin compared to Option B - "Worldly", option A will always seem the better choice. Even if Option B was safe, is STD free. There are other variables at play. You don't spend time wondering who they have slept with, what they did with those people, what experiences they have had. OMG and you never have to hear about how great they are in the sack (because they're never as great as they think they are) - gets so fucking old. Yes, being with someone who hasn't experienced it yet, who will go through those experiences with you is far better. It's not necessarily a societal thing. Putting people down for their promiscuity is, but when you've had a lot of sex and act like an asshole, you're a fucking asshole.

i don't think not having sex is commendable neither is having sex. the only thine commendable is doing WHAT you want to do and not belittling others for their choice.

I don't date people based on their romantic history. I date people based on their person. If you make being a virgin or having sexual partners an identifier of yourself like people who make having or not having a sexual history into such a big deal that it becomes who you are, then sure I'll judge you based off of that but otherwise I think it's pretty stupid and shallow to put people down or judge based off number of sexual partners, no matter the number