did i mess up with her?
kakashe @kakashe
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did i mess up with her?
kakashe @kakashe
so this girl i like invited me to her lake house and i spent 2 days there and i feel like i messed everything up with her. this isnt our first event together i have invited her to movies and anime cons and she always said yes i also see her twice a week at taekwondo. so back on topic at the lake house as soon as we got there we went swimming and then boating. well i got on the tube with her and got a terrible headache so half the day i was puking and being no fun at all for her. i was nothing but a cmplaining mess to her and her parents whom her mom i just met. then the ssecond half of the day like 5pm i was like so tired i wanted to pass out and cause of that i constantly ditched her cause i needed to lay down. the second day went a lot lot better everything went fine that day. i told her a couple times i had fun but then she would say i got you sick and made you tired tho even tho she know she didnt and now i feel like she will never invite me to do anything again because of how that went and this was the first time she invited me to do something. i did happen to invite her to a upcoming anime convention and she said yes but that was before the trip i asked her.
Neko-chi™ @yunoxyukki
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Neko-chi™ @yunoxyukki
the only way to know is to ask her man, for all you know it could be a misunderstanding between you two and she probably thought you didnt have fun. im willing to bet thats exactly whats going through her mind cause she invited you on the trip and you started to feel bad and whatever and she went out and had fun without you so she is probably thinking you didnt have fun. But yeah only way to know for sure is to ask her about it. wish you luck :)
kakashe @kakashe
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kakashe @kakashe
yah i guess ill ask her, thanks
jm89 @jm89
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jm89 @jm89
It doesn't sound like a deal breaker to me. If your relationship is gonna continue to grow with her you'll have to expect to have some bad days along the way. I think you're over analyzing the situation a bit. Ask her like panda was mentioning but I wouldn't stress the point. When you do bring it up do so after talking for a while about other stuff, don't make it the highlight of your conversation and leave room to talk about other stuff after you address that too.
kakashe @kakashe
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kakashe @kakashe
Good advice thx guys
Rinar @renard
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Rinar @renard
Ya just ask her and maybe apologize. It's not your fault for being sick and tired but it shows that you're concerned about it.
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