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Willing to move for love

valvatorezloc
Lets face it, distance is a hurtle for love but isn't or should be a road block. I was wondering how many of you might be looking for that, or rather have seriously thought about all the complications of doing it, do you have a game plan for it? Personally If I could find a sense of worthy income in my new location, or if she was "sugar-mama" I don't think I would have a problem with it, or visa versa. Assuming the relationship fell in place in all the right parts (I was looking in the serious forum for this, didn't see one, any of your ideas or input is appreciated)
trahecreations
I don't think I would move for love. Reason being, one sometimes love doesn't last. Another is culture shock. Another is financial insecurity. I mean if I was rich, maybe. Another reason is I wouldn't know anyone there besides that person. I barely have friends now, but I know the people of my area and who is what, in a whole different place that is more confusing. and to add to that I would get lost. It took me 5 years to not get lost here.
laughingman_dd
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manga_bird
I just have. I'm in Lancashire now, and we're hoping to go to Bangor in a few months - have to find jobs before then though. Not to mention we'll need a flat for Bangor.
yunoxyukki
Well i dont mind it really XD whether she moves to where i am or i move to her or we both just move it doesnt matter as long as whoever that person is im comfortable with. Distance is a pain in the @$$ tbh i dont really like being apart from someone its true what they say about LDR its really hard to deal with so no i dont mind moving if it shortens the gap between me and the person i love :)
jikokun
The positive about LDRs is that you're able to form an extremely stable base given you're both honest with each other. If you can get over the "dating period" of LDRs and decide to move, in most cases, the hardest parts over. The problem is the loneliness, obviously. If you both can't mutually make an attempt to be with each other throughout this period, chances are it will fall through. Rl relationships seem too rushed and often fall apart. You have that "honeymoon" period where everything's awesome but you don't get to know the real them. Long story short, both have ups and downs, just weigh your options. To answer, yes, I would.
riyuzaki
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jinsei
May 31, 15 at 6:50pm
Sure if you can make it work. Even if the love falls through, sometimes relocating can do many things for you. It has to be done carefully with lots of planning, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.
reddwin
May 31, 15 at 9:23pm
Sure I'd definitely move for love if he's near perfect.
lordragna37
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