Fell for a lesbian

If she's identified herself as a lesbian, I would advise you to just give up on that aspect of your relationship with her. Regardless of if she's a "real" lesbian or not, she doesn't see you like that and you'd be setting yourself up for a potentially big disappointment in the end.

I fully agree with xueli, Sometimes when you keep on trying, it might annoy her and you'd most likely get rejected. As for the whole 'false homosexual' thing goes, out of all the several places that I have been, the only time I've ever witnessed that were people were making jokes. All the homosexuals bisexuals pansexual that I have met are very confident of their sexuality and have actually had relations . rarely any students at my school ever pretend to be homosexual, and the same with the Senior High in my area, maybe for the reason that they would be called out for being homosexual and then when the actual people who are homosexual figures out they will shun them as well. But honestly only 1 person ever told you that they were not really a homosexual, and that's because they were just playing around and then people called him that. where I stay in Texas, being homosexual is not cool everyone can be 1 and it doesn't make you any more interesting just because you are 1. I'm not fully disagreeing with the fact that there are people out there who pretend to be homosexual for attention, however I would find it's offensive or rude if someone was saying that just because I'm pansexual, I'm doing it for attention.

I fell hard for a girl who is isn't into guys, she is an awesome friend to me. Though I could never, EVER, try to get her to change her sexuality... If anything, you might have some luck, but what you are wishing is for someone to fall for you, when they prefer girls. It's possible she just might fall for a guy, I guess anything is really possible in that sense, but the heart doesn't make mistakes, and being a 'lesbian' is not a mistake. Think of it as this, what if you had a best guy friend, and he told you that he liked you, could you fall for him? Could you fall for any guy? I might be coming off as saying give up, and being a dream killing, but I'm not exactly doing that. If you two are very close friends, maybe she will see something in one guy and one guy only, you. I don't want to raise hopes, but I do find the heart to be unpredictable. I given up on the girl I fell for, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, and I enjoy our friendship way too much. As much as I desire her love, I wish for her to be happy, and if she's happy with liking girls? Then I'm happy for her, I wouldn't want her to try to be with a guy, if she really doesn't like guys like that. I'm supportive of her sexuality. It sucks, it's really sucks knowing the girl you like may never think of you like that. As for the person above for 'false homosexual'? I've encountered some girls that have pretended to be into other girls. Why? because one wanted to fit in with her friend who was also into other girls, another who was trying to fit in at a therapeutic school. She wanted to be a girl who was different, and liked by the others who are attracted to the same sex.

I have already stated that there are people who lie and say they're homosexuality, however I've said automatically assuming that we are faking because we are young is messed up. I never said at any point of all people say there aren't people faking homosexuality, I was just responding to an earlier comment about saying that all girls under a certain age are usually following a click of people by saying they are homosexual...

:P I wasn't saying you never did or such, I wanted to add to it. I believe the way I worded it may have came off as going against and such. I apologize for that. ^O^ Also when you said "Sometimes when you keep on trying, it might annoy her and you'd most likely get rejected. " I completely agree with this. If he were to make any type of move, and maybe not give up? Or constantly let her be aware of his feelings, it would most likely annoy her, I agree with that. It would probably make her feel uncomfortable as well, and who knows, maybe might hurt their friendship. :(