Cold on the outside, warm and fuzzy on the inside... anyone else find that at all attractive?

Feel free to disagree with me, but I love people who are cold and dryly sarcastic on the outside but truly warm and compassionate on the inside. There's just something about it that makes me smile, like they know or have gone through a lot and are trying to remain composed, but really they're just so empathetic they can't help themselves. Characters that come to mind would be like... Senjougahara from Monogatari or Decim from Death Parade (sorta). They're not tsundere and they're not yandere, they're like... hidingmydere. Anyways, my question is, would you date someone like that? Or would you really prefer someone who is outwardly more extroverted and bubbly?

Lol been there done that XD cute at first lol like i was the same way but after a while its like blegh lmao im mostly into the yandere type someone who is fun and outgoing with a bubbly personality

You mean hard to read? I'd think easy communication would be better,but that might just be me. Things like th at stem from loads of insecurity and it's not as cute in real life as it is in fiction.

Yaashat, Well, my first girlfriend was kind of like this, not difficult to read necessarily, just really frank and straight forward and with a dry sense of sarcasm that I found hilarious XD A lot of people just don't like that kind of frankness, because it seems cold. Especially here in the States I think. But I really appreciate honesty and cutting to the chase when it comes to things like relationships, and I really enjoy dry humor because it's so hilariously tasteless lol. I'm weird. And panda, isn't yandere sweet and bubbly on the outside, but if anything threatens the person you love you turn into a complete psycho? Lol. Shavane is right about kuudere and I sure do appreciate that profile pic as well :D You should look up Yandere Simulator on Youtube as an aside, it looks like it could be pretty entertaining.

I know about Yanderes lol i am one myself XD i love yanderes though they are so awesome and cute i mean there isnt anything wrong with doing anything you can for the person you love....except maybe going to jail for murder haha that isnt ok lol but everything else is reasonable

Well, to be fair, Senjougahara actually does show some Yandere traits, except it seems to revolve more around threatening to poke her lover's eyes out if he does anything that could be harmful to himself XD Which is why I guess she couldn't really be considered Yandere... but! That makes sense, it's actually really romantic, especially if you find someone who can reciprocate those kinds of feelings :o

>Cold on the outside, warm and fuzzy on the inside Nice way to put the Tsundere lifestyle m8.