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Is it bad for a girl to be the robot type of person?

mariahaise
I mean, I have always been surrounded by people way too emotional and outgoing when I am such a robot on the outside so people might describe me as "cold and boring" when I'm not to be honest, and I'm too social awkward to try to be more open. So I've been reading these mangas where the main protagonist resembles me a lot (Saruyama and Last Game) and I realized that people may actually think that so maybe (since I moved to another city not so long ago) I guess it will be hard for me to handle people and up until now I have found just two persons I can actually be myself with (obviously I am the lonely type of girl). I wonder how people see us and if they are afraid of us somehow since we don't display almost any emotion (that doesn't mean we are cold hearted at all).
robscene
http://i291.photobucket.com/albums/ll287/21wq/ponies/thumb_zpshvdlt49d.jpg
neet_one
Not one bit at all, lot of people are into that.
robscene
Emotionally aloof characters like Matsurika from Maria+holic or Yin from Darker than Black http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/ff210/AccipiterF1/Avatars/matsurika.gif http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x145/ludithor/Darker%20than%20BLACK/Yin06.jpg
jinsei
No. rOBSCENE-pie wasn't too far off the mark. There are people who find the quality alluring. You'll be just fine so long as you don't think that your personality is seriously holding you back from something. But it sounds to me that people who describe you as "cold and boring" simply lack the awareness to pick up on the subtleties of your personality. Foolish mortals...
mariahaise
Liked far too much the last sentence :') @Jinsei and yeah maybe I just haven't found people that don't mind that other part of me.
rainx
I don't think it's a big deal although it can be difficult to open up to new people. I probably seem like a bit of a wallflower and introverted when I'm around new people but it doesn't take me too long to open up once I'm comfortable. It's not necessarily easy to completely 180 your personality and become this outgoing extroverted person over night. To me it's just like baby steps and finding a happy medium. Make more of a concerted effort to talk to people, but still be very laid back and approachable.
jinsei
You'll find them. And in surprising places sometimes. I've had people tell me that they thought I was scary and unapproachable until I spoke to them. Then they found out I simply wasn't right in the head. If you try simply saying "hi", people may find you a little more approachable mariahaise-san.
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