Does gender and sexual orientation really matter to you?

Sometimes I fluctuate between a male and female, and sometimes when it comes to my figure or how I look and what I have to wear sometimes, I get really sad. I've always struggled with body image and it's not really a problem anymore now that I'm older and have some confidence, but I started to realize how much I didn't really like being just a ''girl''. I don't really want a label. I don't want gender roles. I don't want to say I'm just attracted to males and that I'm a proud cis-gender female. I want to just like whatever I want to like and be whatever I want to be. I want to be neutral.

Personally, I am a man and I like women. Nothing more nothing less. As long as you find comfortable what you wear feel free to wear it. People will judge you no matter what depending on their personal point of view, so be whomever you want to be and be free. Life is too short to give a fuck about what others think.

Yes, a lot. I could never be attracted to a male. I have enough trouble finding women who are feminine enough to hold my interest as is.

@ neetone Sometimes you find girls who like guys clothing but are still feminine and or pretty. They are rare but they exist, just like cute gamer girls, they are no myth :)

I like women. I don't like gender roles. If a cute chick wants to be a lumberjack, then I'll grab an ax and try not to slow her down. Gender and orientation matter as far as it pertains to me. As for what others do, like Boundbyluck famously sang, "It's yo thang! Do what'chu wanna do!"

boundbyluck, I wouldn't get involved with a girl who likes guys clothing and I wouldn't call them very feminine if they did.

hey some skater girls wear guys clothing and they still manage to look very feminine and even sexy at that. But we all have different ways to look at the same thing, so to each their own :)

Nope! I honestly wouldn't mind if someone referred to me with male pronouns depending on my mood. I, however, prefer she/her and they/them. I don't mind wearing both "masculine" and "feminine" clothes as I don't see clothes having a specific gender :\ Same with relationships, I don't mind anyone really (I really like androgynous people!). My boyfriend doesn't mind what I wear and he's open to wearing what he likes as well!