Help me find love XD

I need to get a job first and i do go and try to talk to people but i get rejected right away im not even exaggerating lol i was talking to my current friend Alexis and in the middle of a convo about science homework she said and i quote "Just to be sure you never ask.. No i wont date you" and after that a girl named Bethany assumed i was gonna ask her out and she freaked and after that my best friend Lurin rejected me when we were walking home and i didn't even do anything XD i was listening to music and before anyone asks yes they were all dead serious

@neko_prince - What you describe is unusual; maybe a miscommunication in some way. Are you sure you did not send some subtle signal without realizing it; changed behaviors for instance. If you are obviously on the hunt girls notice and word spread too. I used to enjoy watching the aspiring PUAs in college trying to score chicks in clubs. They were like factory workers walking down the line getting shot down over and over playing the numbers. Half the room notices after a short time and laughs inside but we all have to go through it some. Nature is also a bastard. When Boys hit puberty their sex drive goes to it highest ever and slowly declines as they age with a bump-up here and there. They however have no resources or an established identity and are not yet valuable and desirable mates when young. Girls at puberty get a much smaller bump in sex drive and it steadily rises and drops a few times in their lives. They however are, inversely to boys, the most desirable when younger due to their reproductive biology that has a shorter window of opportunity. It makes for a frustrating catch 22. Women now days can wait longer to give birth because it is safer to do so and they can get their education done first and start careers. My mom had kids when she was 32 and me at 38 after retiring from the Air Force. This is why I say focus on yourself to get educated and stay healthy, find your identity and mature. You will meet and date many potential love interests(more than you can pursue) along the way and will be able to pursue them once you have yourself in order. When you are doing your thing and are of quality character you will easily attract women.

Honestly I would say, don't look for love it will find you ! I never intended to date my husband or even found him attractive at first ! As bad as that sounds, I love him very much and we are happily married c:

@DarkuSchneider im sure im just really nice and people assume im flirting XD. @Sota AWWW thats so sweet!