What do guys find attractive?

@ neet-one This is a fact, My sister-in-law met my brother on a dating site called POF or w.e She had roughly around 250 messages from random guys every single day. The amount of desperation is high

@ neetone Oh no its not that I disagree with your statement of a lot of guys being desperate for just about anything Its the "place like this" part that amuses me, seeing as this is probably not the ideal place for relationships seeing as most that come on here just want to socialize with people that share their common interest without the need of trolls like 4 chans abundance of said characters.(I'm sure there are plenty of other sites as well) Also remember that as long as you use any type of social media you can actually develop relationships with people, and people will still throw themselves at any opportunity they can get even if it isn't a dating site. Furthermore there are quite a number of females that act the same way so I would add that the spectrum is not defined only by males. And then I would have to go with the trolls that pose as females to mess with men, pedophiles and a very entertainingly large variety of characters that go online looking for partners whom possibly they couldn't associate irl with. The overly shy or socially awkward would normally neverr approach a very good looking woman out of fear of rejection. Online they tend to be able to lose this "flaw?" So they tend to be a bit too ... "eager" is how I would put it. So I got to say under no circumstances have I been offended by your comment I was just slightly amused by it that is all.

boundbyluck, I do see people make claims about this place mainly being to make friends a lot, but it's clearly set up as a dating site, marketed as one, and that's what attracts many of the people who come here. It's true women sometimes get desperate and do it too, but it's just nowhere near as common so you're never gonna see the same kinda results like Jean Rivera pointed out. Even if they don't have any redeeming qualities all a typical women has to do is sign up and wait for the messages to pour in and this site isn't an exception. In my time here I've noticed some women get overwhelmed by it and leave because of it. There's tons of great guys here but I think they need to learn some self restraint. Acting like a drop of water in a tsunami isn't gonna get anyone anywhere. That's just my 2 cents anyway.

Well I never disagreed with you, like I said I found it amusing. And while it is setup for dating, it is a site not really well made for that purpose. But then again that is only my opinion. But like I said before relationships can be made in any social media, this one is no different. And I got to ask out of those males "overwhelming" the females on this site which doesn't appear to have that many regs on it. Is there any chance there might be trolls amongst them just doing that for the "lols"? As for some guys needing self restraint I do not disagree with you. But that sometimes needs to be learned with time. Others just don't want to learn at all, which ... sucks.