Female Otaku Help Required

I sorta get what you're going for but your wording is just terrible. Why ask specifically for female otaku? I'm a guy and I watch as much shojo or quote quote, anime for girls, as the next one. If you're gonna cosplay, do it because it's a blast, you like the characters blablabla etc... Not because you couldn't come up with a better way to interact with the female populace. I don't mean to be mean, but again, the way you put it, you just sound desperate.

I cosplayed once at a convention, I was a troll shaman from WOW And guess what? I had a blast with that...its actually quote annoying getting stopped every five seconds to pose for a picture. I just wanted my anime swag...;-; Damn nerds being like the paparazzi...:P