Female Otaku Help Required

I could use some help from any female otaku who might be willing. I've seen a topic on the forums here saying that guys just don't know where to look for female otaku and that they're more likely to be on RPing sites or something like that. Can anyone mention any sites where their might be more active female otaku? ( I know there are some here but many aren't active in the forums) I'm looking for female otaku to help me with come up with new cosplays to try. I already have a few idea's but none I'm too thrilled by, partly because I don' know how popular they might be (if they would still be popular I would enjoy them more) and on top of that some of the cosplays would be more popular with female con goers than the males such as Watanuki from XXXholic (which I don't know many guys would watch) and Kuyoya from Host Club which is also more shojo oriented. Hence the reason to try and get more female opinion's on if certain cosplay's would still be popular. Because of course, cosplay's are more fun when you know other's are enjoying it. P.S. I also prefer to cosplay characters who have the same body type as I do as well as either HAVE glasses or would look good with glasses/fanart with glasses etc. which has sort of restricted me in my search for future cosplay's because I'm not for the whole wearing contacts thing.

I am not sure how to confirm the activity of all the active otaku females on here. But usually when there is a thread that says that, they try to clarify and say there are only lesbians or they are no looking for a relationship e.i. There are no female available for men on this so called "dating site," according to the other guys. Anywho, base on the pictures I am looking at on your profile, I could suggest: Tonari no Seki-Kun's Seki Kun: http://i.imgur.com/FDpjnNkl.jpg Simple but you can have fun with the glasses. Megenebu's: Anyone who is in the club (take your pic) http://organizationasg.kokidokom.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Screen-shot-2013-10-06-at-11.43.06-AM.png Cardcaptor Sakura'sYukito Tsukishiro http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1mz0z23CxYM/UU0WdJSJlsI/AAAAAAAAAkk/x0wT_0KmgQA/s1600/Yukito+Tsukishiro+-+4.jpg Not far off from Kuyoya Cute High Earth Defense Club Love!'s Atsushi Kinugawa http://images.hangame.co.jp/anipani/etc/spn/web/r01/game/boueibu-game/lp/2014/1107/pc/char_2.png There is also a magical boy outfit to him. Idk if you would be interested.

Soooo.... You want to know who to cosplay as so you can attract women at cons and you want to find other sites that may be a bit more lucrative when it comes to finding a female anime lover? Does that about sum it up? First, you're thinking way to hard when it comes to how to find a woman with the same interests as you. Second, Cosplay because YOU enjoy it. When you are happy and confident, things tend to happen. Happiness tends to be quite contagious and attractive. I may have a penis, but that's my two cents.

Claps for yaasshat.

Cosplaying is about having fun it does not matter if you look cute trust me on this one just have fun at cons if you even wanna have more fun go to a cosplay ball but don"t be shy be yourself and most of all have fun. If I thought being cute in cosplay would get me chicks yeah lol I would be looking like rainbow dash right now lol j/k

Man. Those are some underhanded tactics right there... Kind of silly of you to honest.

@Rina I've just judged it by the number/how often I've seen people on the forums here over the years. I've modified the OP to reflect the true purpose of this topic since it really didn't have anything to do with trying to find someone to date and only with finding a new cosplay to enjoy and was only causing confusion because of poor choice of words. Thank you very much for your suggestions. None of them had occurred to me before though I have to admit I'll probably pass on Atsushi Kinugawa or at the very least the magical boy outfit version lol @yaasshat I realize after you mentioning it, that's what it sounded like so I modified the OP to better reflect what I was really going for with this topic. I do cosplay for my own enjoyment but I enjoy cosplay even more when I know other's are enjoying seeing my cosplay. The issue is that due to my own restrictions (placed upon myself and not judging other cosplayers, "own worst enemy" and all) is that I cut myself out of a number of cosplays that I might otherwise enjoy, Inuyasha for example, regardless of anyone else's preference. Leaving me in the current predicament where I have trouble thinking of a cosplay I actually feel would be fun to do. That being the case I have a few in mind but none that I feel would be truly enjoyable for myself unless others would enjoy them as well. As for the original misleading OP, the reason I'm leaning towards female opinion has more to do with the few cosplays I can think of that would fit my "restrictions" that are more female oriented since I've more or less ruled out most others that just so happen to be more shonen or male oriented which is more along the lines of what I normally watch/read since those are more along my interests and well me being a guy. I'm more than happy to hear guy's opinions on any possible cosplays if anyone has any. If I truly just wanted to please the ladies or use the cosplay's as an attempted female magnet I'd just cosplay from Black Butler lol. Thanks for your imput, I knew the second I saw that you commented here that I was about to get slammed lol. But even when your knocking people you always have truth to what your saying. @The Key That Time Forgot If I truly wanted to try some underhanded tactics I would cosplay the twins from Host Club with my brother at a con lol (makes more sense if your familiar with the anime). For better or worse though, the results do speak for themselves. In her first post Rina gave me 8 new cosplays that I hadn't thought of nor had been suggested to me before :)