Crazy girls

hahahahahaha NO. Crazy people (male, female or other)are a definite no-go. NOPE. Won't touch them even if I'm 200 meters away and using a stick. Those people are just a whole load of problems and honestly i don't see why anyone would romanticize mental issues, that's just kind of gross... If someone has those issues then those issues should be dealt with by a professional. Someone who isn't mentally balanced can't have a healthy relationship that's just impossible I'm actually shocked some people would even consider it. No matter what you say that kind of obsessive behavior is definitely not ok and or healthy and should be discouraged. To quote Vampire_neko; "Obsessive/compulsive, manic, bipolar, schizo, suicidal, psychotic, sadistic and/or masochistic" IS NOT FUN. IT IS NOT. And romanticizing is is just sick. These are people with issues that need help, I had depression and trust me THAT IS NOT ROMANTIC MATERIAL. Just don't do it if you love yourself. A depressed or "crazy" girl doesn't need a knight in shining armor to save her, she needs a doctor, a good one, and the will to get over it herself.

She doesn't pull any punches, but true, though, it isn't healthy nor good, but some can get over it with help from others, not just seeing a professional, I mean depending which you ask, a psychiatrist would just give you drugs, while a psychologist would recommend therapy that may not even work, it's a complicated world out there...

"A depressed or "crazy" girl doesn't need a knight in shining armor to save her, she needs a doctor, a good one, and the will to get over it herself." Yeah, I tried to be that for certain girls when I was younger. It doesn't work.

when i say sadistic and masochistic i mean the real deal not just some innocent fetish or play, there are limits. Some people go beyond those limits and legit get off on pain and like getting beat up, and some actually like hurting people for pleasure there's nothing romantic or sane about that, it's sick. While in fiction in can be a turn on irl that's just all kinds of wrong. And believe it or not drugs and psychologists do help when taken correctly, what doesn't is having someone trying to get into your pants. I'm not saying having someone there to listen to you and support you doesn't help, it really does, and sometimes these people need someone to snap them out of it. But in these kinds of situations sex becomes nothing more than an escape, and a romantic relationship will never be healthy if these issues aren't attended to first. I don't think you people even realize what you're saying, do you think it's cute when a girl starts crying out of nowhere because any random thing will trigger her hysteria? that she's so scared of being abandoned that she obsesses over you and threatens to kill you or herself just so you won't leave? That's not love that's her being afraid and fucked up and unable to TRUST you because she is ILL. This is not romantic.

*Shrugs* I only said in anime I'd be okay, irl is a no, all that needs to be said... We get what you are saying, but getting overworked isn't good either, stress only causes more stress. It isn't healthy, besides, all we're doing is commenting. But yes what you are saying is true, but we don't see it everyday to fully realize it, so sorry for our arrogance *bows*

I lost my virginity to a girl that suffers from manic depression and bipolar disorder and self mutilation. Much of it related to being raped at 8 along with other issues. I was attracted to her firstly because of her fashion tendencies (goth/skater, I have goth type fashion tendencies) and second because of her hypersexuality which I mistakenly associated with emotional desire for me. But she also did lots of drugs and ended up cheating on me (a few times) and then sleeping with a bunch of guys till she got pregnant (which was her goal since she was at least 14). But my point was that things like sex can easily become an addiction and make you feel desirable and wanted and blind you to more serious issues about a person. (until they hurt you badly)