Why do u guys think its so hard for us to find our soul mates...?

its hard because, their interest doesn't me and my interest doesn't interest them. I want that soul mate to have same feelings for the things I like and do

Maybe because some people are impatient and jump on the first thing that crosses their path, soul mate or not. For all you know your soul mate just took whatever was available at the time. A lot of people don't care and will just take whatever they can get.

Hard to say... I used to have incredibly low self-esteem, but over the years I have learned to value myself as a person. I guess there is some good and bad to this.. As time has passed I've begun to come up with some standards that I'm looking for in my significant other. I don't think having standards are bad, but at times I worry I have too many. I just seem to be a little too picky when it comes to men.

I’m surprised at the logic, that finding a soul mate would be more difficult to find, if there’re so many people in the world – unless we assume, that there is just 1 soul mate (alive?) in the whole world. I’d interpret “soul mate” just as highly compatible person, thus a bigger pool only improves your chances to find a soul mate. I guess, I’m just too weird to find a soul mate / a good match: radically pro-freedom / pro-choice (defending the right to die and at the same time any “vile” hentai manga/anime/games and art in general), yet with little tolerance to casual profanity; all this besides being an avid anime fan (which already limits the pool drastically, especially for guys).