Why do u guys think its so hard for us to find our soul mates...?

I'm in the a situation where the only people I get to meet are way older than me, or have bfs. But bigger than is that they're all into sex, drugs blablabla and that's really not for me.

Well a Soul Mate isn't exactly going to fall in your lap. If they exist then your most likely going to have to work very hard to find them. Plus for all you know your soul mate might not be beautiful. Me personally I have no problem making friends, But I'm just not good with stepping things up to the next level. I'm to shy or indecisive about it. But eh what to do haha.

Huh... "most of the beautiful girls".... I couldbe wrong...meh...who am I to question standards? Buuuut... To contribute .... I'm not single...sooo, yeah... Also, whay does it mean to be a "soul mate"? I know what it means to me, but that's a very broad term and an eye of the be holder phrase.

hm, i just posted this simply because my ex gf who was russian called me stupid and lets just say her attitude doesnt match her appearance and she said that i should die and just give up on finding my soul mate

Age, location, expectations, standards, personality, etc. Basically a gigantic pain in the ass hoping you find someone you feel you can click with and they reciprocate.

Conventionally beautiful girls are messed up by society. Pampered when they needed to learn how to achieve. Demeaned when they needed self esteem. Don't forget how intensely awkward it is to grow faster than your peers. Those "beautiful" girls are usually damaged goods that need damaged men. Short version: Don't envy the aggressive males that get the prom queen. ever. Not soulmate material.

Maybe cause theres no such thing ;D Just need to find someone you get along with enough to be with for a long period of time.