What's going on?!

I'm quite proactive, or at least I try to be haha. Misery loves company, Well that is true, Good thing I'm not miserable then. I love to talk and often do, Especially with the new peoples. Eru is right, Its human nature to be superficial, Not saying its a good thing, But the fact is true. Personally I've made plenty of friends so I'm happy, Though I wouldn't mind more and I do attempt to everyday so yeah. Though I do understand where your coming from, Many people just expect people to come to them instead of having to put in any effort, Though that's humanity for you.

@Panza that will only happen if you let it happen. @Leo That is great you are being proactive. I cosplay and I don't like people to see my eyes for reasons, but if you aren't a scumbag and actually get to know me, I open up. I'm not cutesy but I hope I'm not ugly either, but I don't understand how so many people complain if they say they are putting up any effort other than a bunch of people being too superficial. I wanted to tell this one guy "I welcomed you to the site and everything and you just blew me off but now you are complaining about nobody talking to you. I most certainly find no motivation to myself cause you're just being a d-bag. Sorry." But, by doing so I'd be giving him attention and he just seemed like a male attention whore to me. /: Yes I am judgmental to the core and I'm not sorry about it either.

My best luck when I used to do the online dating sscene, was on other, more active sites. The thing is, you can't complain about being shy here, that's a sure fire way of shooting your self in the foot. Yes, everyone is superficial to a degree, but that shouldn't define you. However, just blurting out how weak you are and doing nothing about it will garner you the attention you think you're getting, none. I mean, does anyone like a whiner with no motivation or independence? Like I've said before, it justbbecomes a circle jerk pity party with people who just want to codle rather than motivate. Also, misall, you're rather cute. Don't ever be fooled to think otherwise. :) As for me, I shall just remain a shadow unless situations dictate otherwise.