is there someone relly out there for me

hi iam justin and i need help for me it seems no matter what i do i can never find some one for me and it seems like iam a loser i had a lot of bad times with love most time i relly start to like some one and iam the type of guy that gets to know someone relly well till i start to like them and when i do like some one i like them a lot and the and i never had a gf befor and i dont know if i shold just give up or keep trying but i dont know what to do

Your not the only one that feels that way.I mean I keep thinking that I am loser,back in High School,I wasn't that popular,attractive,I never even went to the prom.But you shouldn't give up on finding true love.Just don't give up.

I think that unfortunately that is the down side of being an Otaku. I agree with Anime fan, just don't give up. You'll find it when your not looking.

So I should stop looking for a girlfriend so one will come up to me? In my whole life, only <b>one</b> female ever gave me a chance. The others... every time I approach I get dissed like a roach. Randomguy, I know how you feel.

If it helps any, try comparing to others and then taking a broader outlook at your own life. For example, I've had a two year relationship with someone which crashed horribly and quite literally, I liked someone who turned out to be a lesbian, someone who ended up screwing one of my friends, etc. Another way is to look at it in an entirely different perspective and just wait. Go after those who share the same interests as you and eventually you'll find someone who'll give you a chance. That or give up like me, but you're better off holding on for now. Experience life and develop for a while more. At 15 love isn't that important as I've found high school relationships to be somewhat of a joke anyways.