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honeyrunne
I feel like my boyfriend is cheating and I need some advice. Lately he's been distant and quite. He leaves without notice for hours for no reason. And any time I try to talk to him about how I feel he gets offended and upset and leaves. I just really need an unbiased outside opinion.
elizan
Elizan @elizan commented on Cheating
Oct 26, 14 at 2:05pm
If you feel he's cheating you should listen to yourself and believe it. If he's not cheating them maybe he's having some issues that he believes he can handle ny himself. That's my humble opinion.
xkamina
xkamina @xkamina commented on Cheating
Oct 26, 14 at 2:27pm
Ask him, if you still think hes lying then perhaps the level of trust isnt there, and thats bad for the relationship as a whole :c
myrhev
Nate @myrhev commented on Cheating
Oct 26, 14 at 9:59pm
Never understood cheating. Anyways, try to talk things over and if he isn't interested in working through whatever is going on, dump him and move on.
gtorocks
Oct 27, 14 at 2:03am
I'm not sure how depth you and your bf feeling are. Is he a jealous type, do he check on you. How long you guys been together and how often you spend time with him. Did you have sex with him or did you live with him. Sometimes these can be happen. Did you annoy him a lot of time? Your information is too little so cannot tell whether he is cheating or not. One thing for sure is guys hate when their gf check if they are cheating or not. Do not try to be giving but try to ask him If there anything that bother him. Boys like when their girl try to understand them not to give them pressure or annoys them. Your action can be a trigger too. Maybe you got him upset by forgetting something or maybe you did something to him. If you think he is cheating, do he look at his phone often and do you know his schedule.
yunokyum
Nov 12, 14 at 1:28am
Get out of him please. If you ask 3 questions and he answers one or if you ask 1 and he don't answer. Get out of him. Ask everthing. I would tell everthing to my love, and never get pissed off. If he betrayed he will get pissed off, and force you to head down to never ask this again. If he never betraied you, ask why he is acting like that, ask what he want, if he want to give a time. But don't let this happen with you. Please. Its a dramatically sad situation, makes me want to cry. It would hurt for more than a year if is true. Be sure to clear out this.
key17
Key @key17 commented on Cheating
Nov 12, 14 at 9:51am
In my opinion if someone acts like that he's either butthurt about something or he really is cheating on you. Men are usually pretty straight forward so all him if you've done anything to puts him off. I'd he doesn't answer that... Them he's got something to hide
jikokun
Don't assume, catch him in a lie. If he's cheating, he will make cover stories. You remember true things easier than lies, so ask him questions, remember the answers and question him later and be like, hey, what did you do the other day, I forgot, or whatever... That's a stupid example to catch him, but it's the best way to see if he's cheating.
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