what's your type?

ok wow, hahaha. @neet-one, Dude chill I really don't care what you like and I was certainly not judging you. Like I said, I just feel people are literally posting lists of qualities they want in others which I find slightly superficial and somewhat funny, I'm not mocking anyone and rly I couldn't care less about what you guys do in life. I'm just suggesting you don't set unrealistic expectations towards potential partners because mostly that's just bound to disaster, which ends up dissapointing you and hurting the other party. I don't want to sound pretentious but I've had a number relationships and I have made all these mistakes, it's normal. I have been disappointed because when I was younger I had high expectations, and I have also met people who given half the chance turned out not to be so bad after a negative first impression, and I've also met people who given half a chance turned out to be a complete disaster. It's great knowing what you want but you can't let yourself be blinded by it to such and extent that you dismiss any other possibilities and end up running into a wall. Again, I really don't care what you do with your life, but I think attacking me in this situations is quite uncalled for. And thank you @vampire_neko, you grasped my pov rather well ^^

" somewhat funny, I'm not mocking anyone" sure, because laughing at people isn't mocking them? "literally posting lists of qualities they want in others" so? Do you even know what the word superficial means? a guy asking for a sexy blond 18 year old girl with big boobs is superficial, asking for someone who shares your interest is not. "I couldn't care less about what you guys do in life." If this was true you wouldn't have criticized them in the first place. "I think attacking me in this situations is quite uncalled for." I think attacking everyone in this topic is uncalled for. You don't laugh at people one minute then when someone calls you out on it play the victim. If you don't agree with the concept of simply wanting certain things in a partner that's fine, but don't be a douchebag about it.

Listen, I see no reason to bother the people of this forum with this argument. If you feel you have a point and want to discuss it with me please do send me a friend request so we can discuss this via private message without inconveniencing people any further. Also please do not insult me as I have not insulted you. (Also; "calling someone superficial is saying that they are shallow and care too little about meaningful things" It is you who does not understand the meaning of the word, my dear chap.)

"I see no reason to bother the people of this forum with this argument." That's so ironic it's hilarious. you come in here and insult everyone in this topic then suddenly you don't want to bother them? "If you feel you have a point" Show some respect to the people who share this site with you, that's the point. Don't laugh at people or criticize them for their wants and desires, and don't look down on people for it either. You don't see me laughing at you for liking whatever you like do you? "please do not insult me as I have not insulted you." What insult? you mean asking you not to act like a douchebag? That wasn't meant as in insult, just don't act like a jerk. That's all. The things people list off here ARE meaningful things to them, that's why they're listing them off. Few people here are asking for anything shallow. Again, stop projecting. I really wouldn't want to be friends with a person who enjoys mocking others, even if it's just for messages.

neet-one, you are taking everything way too personally. I didn't see lanalesty's original comment as anything more than playful joking around. "y'all describing anime characters here rofl." "what i mean is everyone is so specific it's like they're just describing their favorite character which i find hilarious. Because more often than not, that's not how things work xD" Actually when I read Arc's last comment: "I'm drawn to girls who get embarrassed easily, are kind of heart, and have a hidden high sex drive..." It did remind me of a lot of female anime characters. Though I'm not trying to insult or make fun of Arc. Then you said: "Better to have standards and ideals that just take whatever you can get. Try to have some self respect man." and now you are saying: "...you come in here and insult everyone in this topic..." Make up your mind, is lanalesty insulting everyone or lacking in self respect? If lanalesty is so insulting, how come you are the only one so upset? (also when you said "Try to have some self respect man."....actually lanalesty is a woman and a rather beautiful one at that!)

Ah well this isn't fun anymore @neet-one, I think you're acting all butt hurt because you so obviously feel that what I just said corresponds to you. I suggest you work on your self confidence. That being said, I have lost interest in the matter so I will retire. PS; sorry for hurting your masculine pride :)

Lol I'm curious but too lazy to read whats going on ;D Guys dont get butt hurt about online stuff. This thread is people's opinions if they dont match your own then move on or ignore it ;D Cant do anything about it :l

@lanalesty Please understand, for us males, pride is all we have XD!