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How old is too old to start?

maukun
Everyone starts having love experiences at a young age, but it's not my case, I'm almost 29 and never had girlfriend, never kissed and never dated, and I'll be 30 next year, and I think I won't be happy if I don't start my lovelife before that. Though I know it's way too late for me to start, at this age everyone had at least one relationship, so I know it's too late for me to start, I guess since I was like 20 or 25.
amrodcalanor
It varies between people, what type of family/friends they have, and where they live. When I was a kid I lived with my brother and 6 male cousins. So we got out there meeting girls and learning from each other pretty quick. As for you, it doesnt matter how old you are. You can start at any time. Just need to put yourself out there and try.
yaasshat
Don't focus on finding love, just get out there and make connections. Love is not something to be found, rather it is cultivated and grown over time. Unless you stay a recluse, you'll find a connection. You only get what you seek, but dont expect it to ever be instant. Seek a person and not a feeling.
rextheripper
Try to meet and talk to people with the same interests it will help to take some pressure off you trying to find interesting people but don't go looking for love it it will only leave you hurt in the end
xueli
Sep 02, 14 at 6:42pm
there's no actual expiration date on something like this. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't fall into the desperation urge.
moonlightjazz
Don't feel to bad, love takes time. My best friend is the same age as me (34) and never dated any guys and has not even been kissed, believe it or not. It is so hard to find the right person these days. I am starting to lose hope as I have been single for like 6 or 7 years and only been on a couple dates in that time. I always seem to attract the wrong men. I wish you luck, you will find your special someone someday!
shadowdemonx9
You should start at 100, best age to start.
inter_change
24 and never had a girlfriend or dated! That "I'm desperate to get one hhhnnnnhnnn" hasn't got me so I think I'm doing alright.
joseph87mar
27, yep. Do I give a shit, no. I been rejected many times by girls. They only want to be friends and talk, well by me. So I say fuck that. Shit... :/ ... I'm just what ever.
frasia2162
I know people who were asking the same thing you are. They found someone just as desperate as they were and got married. They went on dates and they thought they loved each other... They Said they regretted it. When you look for love, it can make you question what you really want. Find friends. Find Connections. Through these, you will find love that you will actually want, rather than something you're lovey dovey with in the beginning (A.K.A the HoneyMoon Phase), and ends in you regretting not leaving. At least when you are friends and you develope feelings, you will actually have fun in the relationship. But I shall say it now. Do NOT become one's friend to pursue a romantic relationship. If they only want a friend, then don't try to make them think they want more. IF they turn you down, don't start that "Friendzone" bs... Friends tend to be more valuable as you grow older than a romantic relationship. Treat them like they're precious.
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