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I'm Not A Creeper

kronos
Apr 19, 11 at 1:07pm
I've been on this site for a while now. I would like to approach some of the ladies here, but I'm afraid I'll come across as a creeper. I'm not Jack The Ripper, but they don't know that. How can I approach someone here or at a convention without looking like a sleazebag (for lack of a better term)?
kronos
Apr 19, 11 at 1:09pm
Or a pervert (I forgot to put that in there).
solarflarekc
The only suggestion I can give you is to simply talk to them and ask them out or to further the friendship to a relationship, and if they say no then accept it and ask how come. And ladies please be honest with us, don't sugar coat the reason cause we can't make changes if we don't know the problem. I think time is a key factor to a strong relationship. If the person you know on here is some one that you have known for a while then it shouldn't be to hard to talk to them about furthering your friend ship. The key bro is just to have confidence in yourself, that is some thing I have had to learn the hard way. I am not saying be full of yourself but don't doubt yourself or who you are. If they think you are a creep or a perv then ohh well, find the girl that can tell that you are not one. One suggestion I would give about meeting convention girls would be that it is probable better to give public contact information like a facebook address or your maiotaku profile rather then phone number or email, but I might just be saying that cause I don't like giving my number or email to less then well known people.
kajithevagrantsoul
Well said, SolarFlare.
kronos
Apr 25, 11 at 3:35pm
Thanks, guys :)
kurokame
Apr 28, 11 at 2:51am
No offense but "I'm not a creeper" sounds like the famous last words of a well creeper.
kronos
Apr 28, 11 at 2:19pm
@kurokame- In retrospect, you're right. I put this up because I have tried to approach women in the past and they seem to be repulsed by my presence. Basically, I'm trying to figure out how not to come off as one of...<b>them</b>. (thinking) Should I have put this up in the first place? Feel free to say "no".
squirrel_in_my_coffee
I think this is a good addition. Not to be DELETED. Awesome, Kronos.
kronos
May 27, 11 at 3:06pm
Thanks, Miss Squirrel :)
momoichi
Jul 10, 12 at 2:48pm
hmm probz be friendly XP? maybe not press the 'wanna date' or 'wanna meet' thing (though idk if u do that) besides that i dont see y anyone wood be offed by u
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