Why do you feel the need to be with another.

Simple I am asking the users of this why they feel the need to have a relationship. Reasons why: I am in a closed debate myself over this topic and as such would like to hear others reasons if they do not mind.

hmm..i don't know,i never dated before,so it would be nice to be with someone :) seeing around me so many happy couples make me jealous >.<

Oh boy...I'm running the risk of sounding too sappy....Here goes. I think being with another is the most profound and beautiful experience in life. Mostly when sharing love between two people. But we can't share our love unless we are filled with love. When we learn to fill ourselves with love from our "Source" whatever that is for each person, then we come to our partner with inner fullness rather than with inner emptiness. Rather than needing a partner to complete us, we desire to share our completeness with our partner. Sorry if that didn't make any sense. Couldn't quite figure out how to word it... When two people come together to get love rather than to learn, heal and share love, there is a strong possibility that their relationship won't last. With both partners trying to get loved and filled by the other, and neither one having learned to love and fill themselves, each will ultimately be disappointed. Very often, one or both might believe they've picked the wrong partner. When two people come together because they want to learn together, grow together, heal together, share their time and companionship, and share their love and passion, they have a good chance of creating a lasting, loving relationship. Hope I don't get picked apart too bad...

I don't know really. I guess I've just started feeling like it would be nice to spend time with someone else important to me and share my interests with, despite not wanting to feel that way lol.

Whenever I think about a relationship, it worries me about disrupting this perfect rut I've got going. Not that I would mind crossing paths with a sweet down to earth girl who just happens to have magical powers and is going to save the world. Or burn it down. Either way, I don't like to discriminate.

Because I am so awesome I have to share my awesomeness with someone else. I'm not tearing up the walls to find a guy, but it'd be nice.

We are social creatures by design, no matter how antisocial you think you are. We need and desire connection and intimacy. I personally, need to have at least a few connections and not just a relationship. At the moment however, I'm severely lacking in the friendship department...my own doing of course. I'm so painfully antisocial and afraid of critical judgment that I stiffle my self. What sucks is when you want to be social and desire it so much that it hurts to know that even that gives you anxiety, but I digress... At the end of it all we just need to be needed. You wouldn't by a tool just to let it sit there and rust, would you?

You suck yaasshat! Did that critical judgement bother you? I honestly don't feel a need to be with someone else. I would like it, but I don't need it. I would like someone that I can enjoy doing things with but that also understands alone time. Back when I had friends that lived near me I would go through phases where I wouldn't contact anyone or hang out for several months at a time. Some people are more social than others. My brother is very social and the closest he gets to being alone is a few hours of constant texting before bed. Me, I might send three texts a day.