I feel insulted...

Oh jesus. finally got through that @cat That's some story! Back when I was around.. 15, I wanted an anime boyfriend. But, it was different. Not a cosplayer that looks a lot like the anime guys, but. an actual ANIME boyfriend. I hated people, I was content with a drawing. XDD Ah, but times have changed and I don't hate people, I just try to avoid them as much as possible. hehe. These days, I focus more on how people treat me, my friends and other people around them, instead of how they look. Good looks are only a plus, I don't think it really "makes" the person. ^^ And hooking me up with Shin?? Ooh! Guuurl, you bad. @Shin I wouldn't mind either! Always room for more people in my life :D

@oreo Yeah, I wish I knew the real reason. It's all we can assume. Even after all of this I still feel like maybe it was me. but I almost never blame people even if they're at fault. I feel bad for it, but I really need to rant sometimes. @__@

She's bad? bad is an understatement, she's a monster! Nah actually she's one of the nicest people on MO in my opinion, JUST LIKES TO SAY WEIRD THINGS THOUGH.

I know how you feel, Rori-Hime. I had some self-image issues before where I was embarrassed at my height. I may look like a sexy beast, but I'm super short, 5'4". I felt like my height had gotten in the way of what could have been so many relationships. But there are just some things you can't change about yourself, so you just have to be proud of it. That guy had set unrealistic expectations to begin with. No person is without flaws. Any person who thinks a person should look like an anime character is bound to be very lonely.

My recent ex gf was much younger than myself and never had good luck finding relationships because she was a bigger girl (about 250lbs) and all the guys she knew (mostly in school) were very picky and wanted hot skinny girls and were either not interested, only interested in sex, or embarrassed to be seen with her. This tends to be worse with younger guys who have unrealistic expectations. Luckily not all guys are like that, myself included. We are still really good friends and mostly broke up because we have different needs sexually but compounded by her severe depression issues. (She broke up with me for another guy who used her and dumped her)

@Arc I'm 5'3, so you're taller than I am! :D Besides, we're not short, we're vertically challenged. but cute! @Neko Oh lawd, yeah, I'm on the big side also. Not 250 but I'm not slim, either. Plus I'm short so that makes me look bigger, I think. I used to hate it, but now, I don't complain. Because if I were really unhappy, I'd lose it already! XD I've only dated 2 people in my entire 20 years, and both only dated me because I have a "gifted" chest; and they were into that because they lived their life like it was an anime and would only date big chested girls with pigtails and wore school uniforms. all of those fit my description. Both were really sexual but only one tried forcing himself on me. but left with a bite mark he carries to this day, lol. It threw me away from members of the anime community for a long time, even though I was part of that community myself. At least until I was comfortable enough to test the waters again; maybe MOST of the unrealistic creeps died off. xD