greatest fear when having sex

STDs, big time. The main reason why I used to mention "virgin" in the list of preferences, before seeing how ridiculous some virginity-obsessed otaku (the infamous Kannagi case where fans burned their mangas and sent death threats to the author when it was hinted the heroine wasn't a virgin) were and not wanting to be associated in any way with them. Infections in general are scary!

I just don't particularly want to have sex again till its with someone I'm really passionate about, preferably in love with. I love to orgasm while deep inside so I want to wait till I'm with someone im ok with having kids with.

Just waiting for the male birth control pill and it's coming. I've only been with one woman, I don't use condoms ( she's clean) and so far the birth control has worked just fine. Would I do it that way with just any woman? Nope. But, I'm comfortable enough with what ever may happen as far as my current girlfriend is concerned. That's not to say sti's, but potential children. At this point I don't know that I have a true fear when it comes to sex with her, I only wish she had the same drive thst I do...but that's another story.