Here me out, before I come out.

Ask your girlfriend if she would be up for a three some. See how that goes for you. Oh wait...

Personally, I'm not particularly for or against the gay/bi lifestyle, but if my girlfriend came out I'd still love her and I'm sure that wouldn't effect our relationship as long as I knew she still wanted to be with me. Hell, I've seen her make out with some of her female friends ( drunk, but I still question her because it seemed a little to easy for her to do.:P), but ( after some talking, because I don't care who you make out with like that, if you're with me I consider that kind of cheating) I know she wants to be with me. I'm not going to say that as a guy I don't appreciate it on some level.;) Anyways... My point is, if you two want to be in a relationship with each other, you both need to be honest and since you're with him I don't think that all of a sudden means that you're going to leave him for a woman.

@Captian Seki Girl, you already got one foot out of the closet (which is a big milestone btw congrats) so why not just tell the guy? At least ask him his opinion on gays and lesbians (generalize it so it won't sound like a straight-up confession on your part) that way, you'll know to a point, how he'd react to the news. That's just what I would do if I were in your shoes. Heh, that last part rhymed! :P

@Moose of Mibu You are amazing. But, I did it, and everything is a-ok! ^^

Awesome! Glad it worked out for you, I know how hard it can be with confessions and just coming out in general. Awwwh, thanks! You seem pretty legit yourself. :)