Here me out, before I come out.

As long as you are attracted to both men and women, treat it like you would any other relationship. Would you cheat on him with a guy? I'm guessing no from your post. So why would liking a girl be any different?

I guess I should have elaborated a bit. I don't know his views on homosexuality, bisexuality, and all of the above. I don't know if he would either be like, 'Oh ok, I'll like you either way' or 'Oh.. I don't know how to feel about that'. To basically put it, I don't know if he is pro or against gay love in general. I mean, I guess I should investigate it, but then again, I don't know where I might step on a land mine. What I'm saying is, should I tread lightly, or should I just go for it, ask about his thoughts, then tell him, or just hold it off. And no, I would never cheat on him.

Seki, personally I wouldn't worry about it at this point, if ever. Does it really matter that you might be bisexual? I mean, unless you plan on finding someone else or inviting a third person into your relationship, I don't see how it is an issue. Life is too short to worry about problems that might not exist when there are plenty of problems that do exist.

That's gotta be a rough situation, try to figure out how to come out to your significant other. Especially when you're not sure how he views such things. I can't even imagine. If it were me, I'd probably say something casual like, "Hey, that chick is super hot." and go from there. The slowly, casually, build up to it route :p Good luck either way!

I guess you are right, Nate. Life is to short to over think things. I mean. I was just freaking out a bit, thought it would be a big issue and all that. But, I guess, sitting down, talking about it, would just be easier. Thanks for the advice, means a lot. Xueli, thanks xD

yeah I wouldn't say you're open to a threesome when you're not, especially since that doesn't really lead to the kind of conversation you're really looking for