need advice

so my bf an I have been together for awhile now but lately hes more distant, an has been talking to this other girl a lot an been really friendly towards her, he ignored me plenty of times for her, he tell me im the only one he loves an ect. , i want to trust him but im scared he said she might like him but i dont see why he tryin to find out if she likes him or not if he said it doesnt matter to him? an need advice very confused.

There may be people who post non helpful things about this but l am on as of now so I will reply with something helpful. He may just be friends with her do you have any evidence it could be more besides him being distant I would rather not make assumptions on the matter. However what you are stating is common signs to lookout for. One possibility is he could have something on his mind that is bothering him which may be the reason for the distance although that is just a scenario that could be the case. If you are ok with sharing anything else I might be able to help more.

thank you, i just been worried cause i feel as if any girl gives him a lil bit of attention he wants to cling on to them an he trys to act stupid about it. i been wanting to ask him if he as falling for another or if he actually cares about me without causing a aguement

Well does he respond properly when you ask him or does he seem like he is hesitant. If he is getting defensive about you asking him then that could mean he is hiding it although it could also mean he simply does not like that you are questioning him about that implying that you may not trust him. I dont know much about him though and would not want to pry if you dont feel comfortable sharing.

hes a nice guy, he has a lot of fan girls, he plays video games alot, he works an his work has him to travel, havent really meet any of his friends, always has his phone with him but never want to reply back right away, we used to do things together in the beginning, but we dont do any of it anymore, he dyes his hair alot. his style is kinda punkish mix with goth i guess lol i dont know so much about him cause i dont want him to think im getting to noisy if i ask to many questions,

Well first off I need to say something you should not feel afraid to hide what you want to ask. This has to do with women being made to feel like they need to be quite about that stuff. You should ask him what you want if he truly cares about you and trust you then that would be ok. It seems like he may be losing interest in you or he may be putting other things over the relationship. These are all views and opinions so take them as you want. Me personally I think the best route is to ask him straight up if he still is interested in you instead of dwelling on if he is or not. If he is truthful and somewhat blunt like im picturing then he will tell you the truth.

thank you so kindly I actually feel more confident to ask him now (:, i will talk to him the next time i get to see him an just be up front about it.