someone who loves me for me?

Xueli is right, I'm very much a hopeless romantic and the post honeymoon phase is a bitch. I've had very good and long lasting relationships but I've also had my fair share of 2-3 month wtf was I thinking girlfriends.

...when you find someone that is really truly meant for you...there is no honeymoon phase...every mintue of everyday is a honeymoon...that attraction...that spark...it will always be there.

Put it another more realistic way... Love, true love doesn't have to die. Those honeymoon feelings WILL die, but your love can and should continue to grow. Love is not strictly about "feelings", rather it's about what you do and are willing to do for another. In my humble opinion, love is forged and not just found like some long lost treasure. Never expect to always be happy at every moment and never expect to "feel" like you did for the entirety of a relationship. I love the woman I'm with, but I hardly expect all the feelings to be the same ( or the sex...*sigh* I miss six times or more a day though...;) ). My passion has grown as it should, but it's no longer just because I feel a certain way. I instead have put realistic thoughts on how I foresee our future wants and desires. Sure I have feelings, but that's not what it's all about.