Relationship?

I was wandering through the forums posts about relationships love and friendship, Filled with negative thoughts and a few good things. But let us be honest, Pure REAL Love can't easily be found. I bet we all feel the needs of having someone by our sides to spend our days with. For me love comes with time and effort, Such things can't be forced into a day or a few weeks, It needs to be build up, starting from the bottom. An succesful relationship starts of with friendship, after knowing each other for quite awhile, like in details.. There needs to be an sparkle, don't judge a book by it's cover but read it page by page.. That's in fact the same way how you should get to know people better. They might have not the same thoughs and you might get dissapointed but don't give up, quiters never win and winners never quit. People come and go, try to get used to that. Be positive, and think about your future plans. Love the people around you and you shall be rewarded for what you deserve. Loving someone actually isn't about them being with you or the way around, it's about seeing the person you love being happy even if you aren't the reason for their hearts to smile. Being an single missile isn't that bad, look at it from the positive sides. It just takes alot of tries and fails before you find the one who's on the same page worth fighting for.

yeah, some people are a lot more negative than they should be. I was lucky enough to find my boyfriend on this website, so I find it sad when I see people just be down and say its not possible, etc.