Why is it that so many here claim to be so accepting?

Must be nice observing people from the other side of the one way mirror.. For example: A men calls a fat person fat through the phone, the fat men feels sad because he was called fat little did he know the men on the other side of the phone was also fat. Thus bringing me to this last point.. -.- Joke is on me for falling into this argument. who knows what kind of person you are. you must be one of those you so commonly talk about in this thread or just take pleasure in pointing fingers at that person with a personal "check list".

I'm not deseperate. I never said, I would accept them as more than a friend. I have my my own standards when it comes to finding that woman. But i accept my friends and the friends i make for who they are, maybe i should have stated that at first.

Not that i was ever feeling bad, but yes i feel better now that i have a more round view of you as-suppose from the beginning when i first read your post i had a solid square one sided view of you- it wasn't a nice view. Its good to know you're not perfect make sure you put that on your info box in your profile, or i'll write it down in a note paper to remember.

I haven't really felt a zing with anyone here yet. And it isn't that I don't give them a chance, I won't go into a relationship blindly. That isn't how you do things when it comes down to relationships, Not unless your desperate as hell. I want to be friends with everyone first and if I perhaps fall in love with someone then I'll let them know and we'll see where it goes from there because love isn't easy and it isn't always going to be something both sides agree on. I get rejected quite alot from the guys I fall for, And then the ones I don't that like me I don't feel the same way because falling in love with someone isn't something you can control. It isn't about there looks or personality, It's just something about them both together and sometimes it is hard to understand why you like or are attracted to someone specifically and not to someone else who is actually interested in you. Love is complex and when it's over the internet it gets even more confusing. And well being human means we are creatures that judge and we are creatures that compare and contrast. It is in our nature and it isn't something to be ashamed of. That is simply part of how we evolved in this world, And it isn't ' Wrong ' at all. Our nature is not wrong or right. And your not a bad person if you judge someone before knowing them. Every human being does this at some point in there life and It's out of many other reasons then just ' Being a bad person '. Please don't think so straightforwardly.. There is much much much more in the hole picture that you are simply not seeing and you can't understand that is why you Question it. No one is wrong and our nature is not wrong either. We have our preferences and that is normal. Falling in love or being attracted to specific people is not something we can control and if it happens not to be the people who are interested in us then that isn't our fault. When it comes to love no one is at fault. Love is incomprehensible.

I did get a view. just in this thread alone i've learn enough to know how you view people. plus you just told me you weren't perfect. thats enough for me... nothing i would like to know badly enough to try and "earn" it. Have a good day.. hopefully i don't have the pleasure of discussing anything else with you again.