Single Otaku - Tell me why?

For me its a mix of several things. Age, not the most out going, a bit overweight, living in a less populated area, and am a nerd in a lot of my interests. Not the most appealing mix to a lot of women. Most people my age (33) have settled down and gotten married and have started families while I'm still just trying to find an LTR. Long distance relationships at this stage of my life aren't really an option because I have zero desire to move and have a decent job in a town that's relatively close to a lot of my immediate family. I need someone who can accept me for being a gamer and a lot of "normal" women don't like that. That problem is further exacerbated by the fact most girls I feel I could click with are 10 years + my junior and aren't comfortable with dating older men with so many guys available around their own age. As Alexis pointed out, a lot of otaku girls have the advantage of being very selective with so many guys interested. Even at cons, most girls fall into that 15 to 21 range and are just too young to realistically consider. In the off chance I do run into a 25+ year old female otaku these days, rarely are they single if not already married.

Hell, and its not for lack of effort. Ive been recently getting to better know a 21 year old girl who is a mutual acquaintance through of a friend of ours we have a lot in common and we seem to get along great. So what's the problem then? She's a lesbian and doesn't like guys that way. I just can never catch a break! :p

I'm fully willing to move for the right girl. I met a girl on here who seemed interested but she hasn't been on here in a week. Awhile back I met a girl who I thought might be interesting to get to know but turned out to be asexual and has no intention to ever have sex with anyone. My ex is almost like that but she still gets horny at least once a month. Where do you find single, nymphomaniac (but monogamous), goth/emo/alternative otaku girls that are not jailbait?

@Alexis, I'm a very sexual person who loves to touch and kiss and cuddle alot (and sex of course, daily) but I only want a serious monogamous relationship. And unfortunately you're taken of course, lol. The only thing going for me is that I like bigger girls too that alot of guys snub.

@neko, I wasn't suggesting anything, just saying that it was kind of funny to see you use the word as well lol I am in a serious monogamous relationship :3 I met my boyfriend on this site, actually.

@Alexis, lol, I didn't mean to imply that you were suggesting anything I just meant that of course you had to be taken (you don't meet too many single nymphomaniacs unless they want to be single in which case they most likely don't want a serious emotional relationship.) I've also noticed that as females get older, their sex drive tends to even out since the newness of sex has worn off and starts to bore them without alot more variation so it tends to be more of a challenge to find a girl over 25 to match my sex drive. The only girl to ever exceed my sex drive was 18, lol.