Turn offs?

So we have a thread for turn ons, but what about your turn offs? What are your deal breakers, or what will make you decide "nope, can't do it. " For me, it's smoking. Women (or men) who smoke are just. .no thanks. I don't mind female friends who smoke, but I won't date a person who does. What about you massive group of people? Tell me your turn offs!

Definitely agree on the smoking thing. It's a huge dealbreaker. You can be the hottest thing in the world but if you light up...sorry. It smells, It makes me itchy and unable to breath...not hot at all. Another dealbreaker is being a general ass. I can't stand people who harass other people and just won't stop, or do things to hurt others deliberately.

Smoking, Masochisticnessim, and general dominance ...I will never hit a women and I can't stand a women that will beat on me knowing this. Through experience I've been Drunk n blacked out pist off while she took her best swing at me and I can honestly say I never laid hands on any women. I believe in equality to an extent... meaning she should never act manly...that's a turn off. Now smoking since I'm a party boi I don't discriminate but you better be sure to have gum or something on hand or I won't be able to get close to kissing you.

OH! So, I thought "What a charming guy." once. He had a good personality, was helpful, and seemed genuinely interested in keeping a conversation going. THEN! It happened... He started criticizing someone's taste in music and acting like he was so intellectual for listening to music that nobody else knows about... I was completely turned off... /: So basically. It totally turns me off when people berate others based on what they like. It's all subjective really! D:< As for smoking... SERIOUSLY?! I don't give a hoot about who smokes, what they smoke, or why. I know someone you would never know they smoked unless you actually saw them. Never reeked of cigs, never had ashes all over, really considerate. They just had to smoke sometimes... So while this is really subjective, I disagree.

Yep, seriously. And I would be able to tell. Smoking is a disgusting habit, and if they would have to hide the fact they smoke, basically lying by omitting, why would I bother waste my time?

True it's not good to hide thing. And I don't know you well enough to judge your nose... but, I think it's all subjective so it doesn't really matter. It's what you don't like, right?

For me, cigarettes would be a definite dealbreaker. I have seen far too many people start off by only smoking every once in a while, or just smoking to help ease stress. And then over time, they start to feel that "need" to smoke more and more often and the habit then begins to form. And before they know it, they're slaves to their cigarettes. I'm sensitive to second-hand smoke. Plus, I would prefer somebody who has a healthy set of lungs, as I do lots of hiking and other outdoor activities. It would be nice if they could be able to enjoy it with me for years to come. As far as pot, I can be a little more forgiving of it because it's not addictive like tobacco products are and usually not unhealthy.

Jesus I wanna pray to u this once (even tho im atheist) that u do me this one deed m slap these stupid ppl n show them the light ok thanks lol

I completely forgot one big thing. Elitism. Whether it be cosplay because you have mad skills, or because you watch all the obscure crap...I can't stand it. If you're really good at cosplay, instead of sniping at someone with the same cosplay who isn't as good...GIVE THEM TIPS! "That's an awesome staff, if you ever remake it you might have a better time using __________" " Oh so you haven't seen ________? Its good (Insert summary here)" instead of " oh god, what did you make that out of? a halloween lawn ornament?" or " Ugh...well you musn't be a real fan" It drives me nuts. People have lives and everyone gets into things at different time. Help! don't turn it into a competition, because it shouldn't be. It's supposed to be fun. Huge turnoff.