Overthinking.

So I know users must get tired of seeing these posts, but I'm in a conundrum. There is someone who I've known for awhile. We met over the internet and we've hit many road bumps mostly because of my unstable situations and fear of commitment. Especially since he lives far away. Well, I thought not talking would be best for both of us so I cut off all communication and we ended up not talking for awhile, but he ended up contacting me and then we spent a few days talking which made me realize my feelings for him, but it turns out he became interested in someone else who lives closer and started dating her. I hate that my feelings are so complicated because I know he doesn't care for me anymore and in turn I want to forget about him. It just sucks. Moving on is so hard, I just feel dumb for having any remaining feelings for him. I've tried, I just still can't get over this hang up I have. What is best to do in this situation?

Honestly. . You guys made the choice to stop talking, it was only natural he was going to move forward. But don't give up hope, who knows what the future holds. In that same turn, You should move forward yourself do you don't linger and end up resenting yourself.

I had been talking to him for almost two years and I had done that (Putting a block on communicating) I dunno even know why I replied when he messaged me, but it just nice to talk to someone who I could actually carry a conversation with and had the same humor as me. I doubt while I have remaining feelings I could be friends because I'll be hurt. I mean I'm happy he is with a person he likes. It just still twinges.

I think you should wait to try and communicate to a person you still have feelings for.(even though you replied to the person already) maybe just Wait until you're ready to either get over your feelings or accept your feelings to the point that you can say " I like you, but I'm over you." (I know this is kind of a late post but I really know how you feel, and that's something we all have to do every once and a while. good luck with your future relationships.)

Love is like rain you never know when it will happen even the forecaster can be wrong about it sometime is a good thing you dont go for it i was just a relationship just a week ago we had just got our apartment and we were there all of three months before she walked out on me i begged for her to come back so we can talk it out but she said she would and the day i was to go pick her up she said she didn't wanna come back so sometime what you thing is good for you just might not be

Don`t give up on relationships just because he is far away and all of that and he could be on depression cause he couldn`t physically see you in person and all of that... There are two ways that he wouldn`t contact you like for instants he could be having a hard time in his life or he could found somebody else. I just hope that you guys could talk over about this and have a good convention about your relationship, but if things goes worst than that means he is willing to break up with you so the best option is to start out with a nice greeting.

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