Another question for the hell of it. :]

Everyone throw your opinions in! Is it productive or counterproductive to have very specific criteria for your "dream (guy/girl)"?

Well, lets just say you were unwilling to compromise on your criteria but were willing to accept other things about them. I'm afraid that I have asked a broader question than I intended, because the success of this depends on so many things not going wrong that may have nothing to do with the criteria. It makes sense that having fewer criteria will increase your chances of finding them, but is it worth it to do so? Does having more criteria increase the chances of the relationship lasting longer or forever, and if so, would it be a stronger connection or bond?

It's not about if it's easier, it's about whether or not it is a viable and successful method of finding your "soul mate" if you will.

Well, it seems to me if you drawing some fine lines there which makes it hard to give you a direct answer. No person you come across is going to be without fault and imperfections, but if you have a general idea of what you are looking for when it comes to a relationship then you can go from there. If I met someone who fit my description of dating material, but they had a bad habit like maybe smoking, well, that might be a deal breaker for me. I just would not be able to tolerate it and I would never compromise that just because they seem to be good in every other aspect. I don't think anyone should lower a standard just to be with someone. In a way, I feel like that is being dishonest. Does that make sense?

I think it makes complete sense. I was already convinced this was going to work to some degree and that probably won't change. But I posed the question in order see what other people thought about it. I like seeing things from all points of view. It helps me refine my understanding of subjects. So by all means, everyone who wants to throw their two cents in are welcome to do so, but do try and be serious with your responses. :]

I think it's productive to kind if think about it, to help in the long run. But I think hat it would be counter-productive to actively seek out people with those criteria. I mean, if you find someone awesome, your criteria will change to fit them.

Prince charming does not exist. Look for someone you randomly notice makes you happy to talk too and fits the most important criteria. Has a job, a kind heart, and so forth.