THAT'S WHAT I CALL BEAUTY!!

alot of ppl ask why dont i put my own full pic , well the answer is unfortunatly ppl would want to talk to you just because they find your pic attractive not because you have commom intrests or whats so ever , no im not that great looking! but would you ppl be less shallow? i mean we are in the 21st centuary and ppl still judge beauty based on looks? let me tell you this imagin if you were walking by the beach and found a box , in this box were 2 things : 1-glass shaped like a diamond 2-a real diamon but has an undefined shape , which would you pick? the real diamond.. because its whats real , the beauty of the core.. THAT'S WHAT I CALL BEAUTY!!

It's called honesty. as for being shallow, well, it's an online dating site. looks will always have a factor in it. Some people don't date certain races for whatever the reason, some people don't care for fat girls, some people love fat girls, some people hate skinny guys, some people love em. You're giving yourself a handicap. Beauty is not just looks, it's attitude. If you're not confident in yourself, regardless of how you look, I personally would not date you. I hate women who cake on make up and put extensions in their hair and what not. To me, that's being as fake as the anime character you pretend to be. But at least if you cosplay, it's all in fun. I rather see someone in full costume than a 'supermodel' anyday. looks will always be a factor. get used to it. thinking that you're ugly or that guys only look at looks is a huge misconception. It does help, of course, if you are beautiful, but I know some people who are downright demonic inside because they're 'cute' and I really want to shove their heads in a bowl of acid.

hey hey.. what made that to a violonet interact to me? first i dont put make up or extinction , 2nd i didnt say that im ugly i said that ppl would judge me by that and i dont think im great looking i think im normal , im just trying to say its the soul that matters... no need 2 chew me up like that

i didnt mean that guys are shallow i said ppl i was talking in general , and i had my case up as an example just dont denai that most ppl who get the attention are those who society has brian washed us to think that only ppl like them r beautiful !

You missed the point. People judge. You think because you don't have a pic up people won't judge? If anything, because you DON'T have a real pic up, they're gonna assume even worse. The imagination is a scary thing. Also, why is it people think that 'judging' is a bad thing?

well you see a person very intrested in you till he or she sees you then their atitude change 2 worse , even in real life you see 2 ppl who incredably suit each other but one of them says no because the other peson isnt soo attractive to their eyes , then they start complaining about being single and whats soo ever , looks arent a choice i mean no one choose how their eyes/nose/mouth looks like true beauty is chosen like the soul you chose to be kind and sweet , people arent THINGS , you cant just say i want a guy/girl who is hight is this and weight is that annd hair is and bla bla because you are not in a tailor shop !

I do agree that some people are that shallow, but I have never actually seen that happen in real life. Never. Maybe because I am from the era where if you wanted to meet someone and talk to them, you did. Not via social media. But if that has happened to you, I seriously feel for you cause it's revolting. But then again, I admit that I have preferences. Everyone does. It's called their "dream girl/guy". I don't think I could take anyone who has zero pics of themselves up on their profile of a dating site seriously. When/if you go on a date in real life, are you going to be cosplaying that character in your profile? are you going to bring that pic with you?

ofc id share a pic , but hey its the internet some feel comfy putting it up some like me who arent , i tend to by shy 2 post a full pic in public , but you dont need to make a joke out of it i do like anime , but im not a mad person who'd walk in somewhere that is not a con while wearing a cosplay ._., ofc in a date id wear regular clothes and be me ,and u dont hv ur pic on nither , even if u did in ur gallary , its not ur main pic either ,im not a fake 4 gods sake... i do have cam and mic 2 prove my idintity and btw this isnt any dating site its 4 ANIME lovers soo maybe my choice of anime pic is also an anime that some1 likes 2.

couple things about me. 1 - I wasn't joking. i was dead serious. 2 - there's a huge difference in having a pic in your gallery that is of you... and not. I have a pic of me. Why is not my main profile pic, the same as yours, more or less. But I do have a pic of me up. And I will be adding more after I get back from vacation. 3 - You say you're not fake... but not 1 pic in your gallery is of a real person. You know how many people pretend to be chicks for fun? yeah, me, personally, until I see a pic or video, everyone is an ugly hunchback demon. That ugly hunchback may have a great personality, but until I see otherwise, that's how I cope.

1st im not a fake... man i hv skype ok?u can call me and ill prove it, 2nd some1 can post pics of a chick whileitd be actually a man , dont call me a fake if u hv no proof i can prove 2 u RIGHT now that im a girl