Hey, there--really want to meet people with a kindred interest =)

Well, my name's Ryan =) And, well...at this point in time I feel a real disconnect with girls who aren't fans. I've just kind of un-closeted myself as far as my interests goes...started cosplaying and the like, getting merch, just being more open in general. Going to my first real con soon too! So, very excited about that! Anyhow, a few months ago, I came across someone, a fan, who I just found to be an amazing person in so many ways. But, due to the whim of circumstances, I know it's not meant to be as things now stand. But, one thing I do know is that if I'm going to date someone it would be really amazing if they were a fan and shared my interests =) I love the whole culture and aesthetic and ideals presented in the medium. It's so different from what we've been acculturated too in the west and I admire the kind of earnest spirit some of the otaku girls I have met possess...sometimes on the surface and sometimes deep down. I guess I just really want to make some more friends like that =D I've tried to go back and date in the rock/partying circuit I've kind of grown up in...and I just don't like it. It just doesn't have the warmth and I don't know...sense of salvation you see in the culture. And I miss it... It would be the best thing to have a bestfriend/lover that's into this! Someone smart, funny, cute, quirky, and clever. I really love it when people are good writers too and can talk about analytical subjects and philosophy. That's something that's huge for me.

Welcome to the site. :3 Everyone here is quite friendly and open and if course, share an interest in anime/games. I do hope you stay and become a member. And of course I hope you meet your special someone. Have fun and don't be shy to friend people!

I feel you bro. I hope you get everything you want! Sooner rather than later. As for your first con... You'll have a great time! I remember when I went my first time like a year ago. Don't be afraid to interact with those around you! It helps add to the experience.

Welcome to the site and enjoy your stay. c: I see, well, there's a lot of otakus here for you to mingle with. I used to be a closet otaku too, but when you're around people who like the same thing you get more comfortable. I hope you'll enjoy it here. c: <br></br> Just thought I'd let you know that we have an unofficial chatroom on Tinychat up. If you're interested, come <a href="http://tinychat.com/maiotaku"> join us here</a>. We're all friendly. \(*0*)/ Most of us are on around at night. (P.S.It's an 18+ chatroom for people who 18 years or older <b>only</b> due to Tinychat rules.) Thank you for understanding! :3