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snowangel17 @snowangel17
Ok i am extremly shy how do i get over it?
Light @light323
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Light @light323
Everyone is shy just break the ice and its all good. If you meet someone try to talk about something you both have in common and that should take care of the shyness. If you're shy about talking in public to a group of people just look them in the forehead as you speak lol
snowangel17 @snowangel17
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snowangel17 @snowangel17
Thats funny lol.thanks for the advice
Light @light323
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Light @light323
No problem and good luck!
SimonSan @simonsanbr
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SimonSan @simonsanbr
Fake it. I go into an 'RP' mode when talking to strangers until I feel a bit more comfortable.
Kane Anrui @kaneanrui
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Kane Anrui @kaneanrui
When you see someone you want to talk to, walk up to them and look at the various conversation options that appear at the bottom of your screen. From there, just follow whatever conversation tree looks pretty at the time. Even if you don't get the desired results, you're still taking steps toward the "good end" (as long as you didn't choose any of the "mean" options, mind you).
xueli @xueli
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xueli @xueli
Yeah, I'm a big proponent of the fake it until you make it method. But really, you just kinda gotta build it up little by little, like desensitize yourself bit by bit until you're used to just talking to random people
Trash Ramen @exherokid
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Trash Ramen @exherokid
^^^love those replies.
snowangel17 @snowangel17
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snowangel17 @snowangel17
Thanks everyone
tornadomushroom @tornadomushroom
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tornadomushroom @tornadomushroom
I used to be shy, then I realized that being shy had ZERO benefits and realized that some people are not willing to get to know you until your shyness subsides. So i've decided to just be me and if it pushes people away then so be it.
Obviously it's different from individual to individual but I think the only thing you can do is keep practicing with conversing, you'll eventually get over being shy :)
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