Neko-chi™

Ooo, pretty fire. https://media.giphy.com/media/dQKKBq3VxBcGs/giphy.gif Actaully I believe everything happens for a reason even aerosol cans, it might have trigger something that was meant to happen, and makes for an interesting story. And I don't know what their irration was but most likely something they were dealing with and not actually me they had a problem with, what those issues may be I have no idea but I hope they find happiness. I am not sure, I decide to be happy but once I am annoyed I have to work at getting myself back to the level I want to be. I try not to get to that point to begin with because I feel bad if I was to snap at people because I have the ability to choose how I react. I been working on becoming a more whole and happy person each day, looking at hardships as lessons the something bad that happened to me.

Whoa you are still awak? I am all too familiar with the one sided effort, and even got yelled for it because I was too affectionate, or I showed too much concern. I think if both people are into each other it would be effortless because not one person is carrying around the weight. If you feel drained just trying to keep the relationship alive and keep the other person happy there is something wrong. You should both be cheering and helping each other. As far as repeative goes, yes repeative bad. I agree that working on the problem together is key. I like the idea of communication rather then agruing at all. You sap less energy, be more effective and it should not have to feel like entering a battle field when you are trying to talk to someone who means something to you. I have a tingling feeling that you are exhausted when it comes to relationships because it seems all your efforts have been wasted, and your energy drained, maybe some time to recharge would be great, though I want to hear that fire story since I am curious now.

Well that reaction was unexpected, but I agree chemistry, a deep connection, and a powerful bond On both sides is important, but also to warrior up on those hard times as well. "I am not afraid life." http://p1.pichost.me/i/14/1373589.jpg However if you war amongst each other instead of building understanding, and accept that the two of you are separate people then I think that nothing but contempt grows from it. Yes life can have crisises and bring hardships but working together is how couple grows and becomes stronger over time, also being cute is also an important factor. I agree that it is far better to find someone to spend a lifetime, an eternity then to live only in the moments but I think (and this may be my optimism here) that you can create wonderful memories even in chaos. Also you mention common interests, I agree it is great to have hobbies, interests, and passions that are the same but it also refreshing to have someone who gives an interesting new perspective on everything, makes you think, and opens you mind to possibilities. If you are going to spend a lot of time together there should be a lot to talk about and things you will want to do together, like that best friend you never get tired or get sick of seeing, and also be goofy and have fun with. ^_^ Also I haven't seen that anime but I should add it on the huge list of anime I need to see. By the way having that deep connection has been most important to me as well but I have found that even in the past relationships I have had they all were me trying to get closer to them but only on my end. I call it a learning experience.

Yes, I can relate to liking someone quickly because something about them draws you in, but just like that a certain way about them seems not right and poof it's gone. As for the exes not understanding you, I don't think it is being weird as much as being on a different wave length or level. Sometimes when I talk to someone it feels like I am having a conversation with alien from another planet because there is too much of a difference, not that it is bad but you can't force yourself to be something your not either and be truly happy so that became a open gate of misunderstandings. http://orig09.deviantart.net/415b/f/2012/275/5/1/colouring___you_perverted_alien__by_chefnem-d5gl7m3.png I usually don't give people a chance because if it doesn't feel right I believe in my own instinctive nature to know there is a good reason and that they are not the one. Physical appearances only attract me if I like someone, so some eye candy can jump up and down and beg me to be their girlfriend and I wouldn't be interested until I got to know them first to see if they are attractive to me. My theories on 'The one' life partner is: If they make you smile and laugh everyday, makes you feel encouraged to be better and healthier person, to never let you forget your hopes and dreams and passion in life, to understand you on the same level and make you feel like you can be yourself without judgement, to love you unconditionally, reacting to each other with love and kindness and without replying back in anger or hate even when things get difficult always standing with you together, and to cherish and hold each other like scared treasure no matter what, the hard times only proves how much you mean to each other instead of fighting over pointless things, that is when you know it is true. At least how I see it. This is why I love some of the romantic anime because they really show how much that person means to them, tenderly, even when they are a tsundere. http://33.media.tumblr.com/69134ac6ba6de5d726bba1a5f55b2541/tumblr_nbjw8eXvqd1rbi7cfo2_250.gif In anime It means something, you can tell by what they say and what they are willing to do and how far. Like the way they move and interact and touch the person they care about. And children that is where baby frogs come from. http://data.whicdn.com/images/63076314/large.gif

I don't think I ever was a stalker but I was rather shy and kept quiet a lot even when I was dating them in high school and I didn't take interest in guys at all until I was a Sophomore. I am more picky now then when I was younger because I use to like any crush who paid me any attention. https://media2.giphy.com/media/xCVLdVLiPO8hy/200_s.gif Now I just reject most confesses and keep my likes a secret which is might as well because they either end up being taken anyway or not the person I thought, you can say I like to study my subjects well to make sure they are a good match. There is too many who get attached for physical appeal but I am after something real and lasting. https://www.dramafever.com/st/news/images/40df253b-db24-476c-9321-79c24b112113.gif ^_^; Sorry this is a lot of personal information and this is where I start to feel like the creepy person a bit.

*hugs* http://41.media.tumblr.com/c44808f28faaff13ec20614c5112543f/tumblr_n84hpwnE9A1spshlzo1_1280.png No I meant you running from a certain yandere because of the stalking jokes. I read your bio actually (I read everyone's bio to get a feel for the person) but you don't seem scary at all, just cute. Don't worry I am not running away. I know what it's like to feel like a creep to everyone and to have one sided attachments that why I fight my heart and use logic to become detached. http://49.media.tumblr.com/e093e0d4b1e66ffbfe6c1f3169ab55b6/tumblr_nvm12qG8RN1t89rpeo1_540.gif

Oh crap a yandere, a different breed of crazy stalker. Time to Run! http://www.deathsdoorprods.com/wp-content/uploads/toradora-2-e1360878759903-1024x575.jpg

Yes that's me Panda-kun! I get a heart attack of cuteness! :DD Specially with Noel!!! <3 http://45.media.tumblr.com/43a071fa5ff57267042d1e76cccefc88/tumblr_nczga7X1lh1t0no49o1_500.gif

Are you stalking someone at the moment? http://comicsidontunderstand.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/stalker1.gif http://www.kappit.com/img/pics/201511_1746_gagii_sm.jpg http://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/edward_stalker_shrunk2.jpg

With the jokes or stalking. *stares* https://yurination.files.wordpress.com/2014/05/makis-suspicious-face.jpg http://www.jokeoverflow.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/twilight-stalkers-e1311750584839.jpg http://www.hushhushattack.com/images/joke20080428.jpg